First, I for one am fucking tired of the personal attacks prior post to about 25 posts ago. It is clearly more than one person doing it. Okay, we got it. And we know in detail (ad nauseum) why you don't like them. For me, when there is someone I don't like, I don't include them. I just ignore them long enough that I forget about them. Sometimes literally. The only time that doesn't work is when someone brings something up over and over.
Now about DRob. One possibility is that he is so competitive, which looks to be true from his tape, that regardless of where he goes, he wants to prove to himself he can get in to Stanford. In a way that is sort of the high mark of academic elitism in college football, at least of the Power 5 schools. And that looks like academic attainment to some.
Why do I say something so foolish? Many who work human behavior, apply logic. So, for instance when you have three conditions, you look for any to that conflict.
I want to stay close to home, or I am being pressured to stay close to home.
I want to go all the way across the country to Stanford.
I want to go to Notre Dame.
Do any two conflict? Really, yes. What happens when you throw out the conflicts?
Now the exception to this when working with people, is if the subject,* is bat-shit crazy. See footnote below.
* (If the process itself or anyone around him in a responsible position, or role of authority is bat-shit crazy it will have the same effect, even if the kid is solid as a ND Man!)