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I have this employee that I've mentioned before. He has a bad habit of interjecting his opinion into everyone's conversation, even if it doesn't relate to him. Apparently he is an expert on most anything. He does great work, but just doesn't "get it". At his former job, he was in IT and part of his job he did graphic designing of marketing pamphlets, literature, etc.. He also supported their "Word Press" website. Even though he has no real experience in marketing and has never taken any classes in marketing he thinks he knows marketing.

Behind my back, he goes to the VP of Sales and tries to talk him into creating a marketing position for him. VP tells him there is no need for marketing and what marketing we have is not enough to keep a person busy for more than a couple of hours a month. He will however continue to look to IT to create line cards, flyers, brochures, etc..

Fast forward to this past week. I go to lunch with this VP to discuss strategic planning for his group and how IT can help them get to his goal. He mentions this employee has come back to him asking about creating a marketing position. He tells him the same thing, but then my employee tells him he's not happy, had to lose $125 from a canceled gig because he had to work a Saturday and was only given two weeks notice that he'd have to work that weekend. Then he tries to tell the VP that I take all the credit for my staffs work. At that point the VP stops him dead in his tracks and tells him that is the furthest from the truth. He then goes on to complain more.

On Monday, I call the employee into my office and inform him that I'm aware that he's not happy. He starts to tell me how marketing is his real passion. I then ask about his comments about not getting credit for his work, he's not happy because he had to work a rare weekend, etc. He denies he said anything about me taking all the credit for my staffs work but was unhappy that he missed his gig.

I let him know that I wasn't happy that he went behind my back, not once, but twice and that the President of the company (my boss) is quite happy with our work along with the progress we've made in three years. I let him know that things aren't going to change. We don't have to work many weekends, but when we do, he's expected to contribute.

Wanting to make sure I'm not off base, I ask the IT Manager that reports to me if he's had any complaints from other employees about anything. He tells me no and tells me I am more than fair in the way I treat employees. Not necessarily looking for advice here, but more just letting off a little steam instead of calling him back in and raking him over the coals.
 

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Dude, my wife does that shit whenever we go through a drive-thru.

We'll be waiting behind another car, or waiting at the speaker for the employee to give us the go-ahead, and that whole time, I'm formulating the perfect junk food order in my head.

My wife, on the other hand, twiddles her thumbs and forgets that we have entered this place with the purpose of choosing food, and so acts surprised and unprepared when I begin to order. It drives me insane, because then I'm halfway through our order, and have to stop and wait while she thinks.

Dammit woman!
 

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Dude, my wife does that shit whenever we go through a drive-thru.

We'll be waiting behind another car, or waiting at the speaker for the employee to give us the go-ahead, and that whole time, I'm formulating the perfect junk food order in my head.

My wife, on the other hand, twiddles her thumbs and forgets that we have entered this place with the purpose of choosing food, and so acts surprised and unprepared when I begin to order. It drives me insane, because then I'm halfway through our order, and have to stop and wait while she thinks.

Dammit woman!

Order for her

"She'll have half a salad and a water"
 

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Dude, my wife does that shit whenever we go through a drive-thru.

We'll be waiting behind another car, or waiting at the speaker for the employee to give us the go-ahead, and that whole time, I'm formulating the perfect junk food order in my head.

My wife, on the other hand, twiddles her thumbs and forgets that we have entered this place with the purpose of choosing food, and so acts surprised and unprepared when I begin to order. It drives me insane, because then I'm halfway through our order, and have to stop and wait while she thinks.

Dammit woman!

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In fairness my wife used to do stuff like this when we first got together...

but, I... corrected her, Sir.

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Dude, my wife does that shit whenever we go through a drive-thru.

We'll be waiting behind another car, or waiting at the speaker for the employee to give us the go-ahead, and that whole time, I'm formulating the perfect junk food order in my head.

My wife, on the other hand, twiddles her thumbs and forgets that we have entered this place with the purpose of choosing food, and so acts surprised and unprepared when I begin to order. It drives me insane, because then I'm halfway through our order, and have to stop and wait while she thinks.

Dammit woman!

It's an inherent trait shared by most women.
 

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I love when we drive somewhere and it takes five minutes for everyone to get out of the car after I park. WTF did you pack of knobs think was happening next when I positioned the car in a parking space, put the car in park and turned off the engine?!?? Wifey is the worst about this. Drives me bonkers.
 

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It's probably been mentioned thirty times in this thread, but I hate people that suck at parking in the parking lot.

There is zero reason for someone to park outside of the lines of the space they were *trying* to park in.

I know there really are people out there that suck so bad at driving, that it's the best they can do. And that's annoying in its own right. But I think many cases of people taking up two spots, or at least making it extremely difficult for someone to park in the adjoining space, is simply people being inconsiderate.

If I pull into a spot, and think it might be a little tight for a car to get in next to me, I'll back up and straighten it out. It's an extra 15 seconds, tops, and it's going to make the next car's life wayyyy easier. I know if I suck, then somebody is getting a shitty spot, and that's not cool.

But every time I'm at the grocery, there is at least one example of a blatantly bad park job.
 

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It's probably been mentioned thirty times in this thread, but I hate people that suck at parking in the parking lot.

There is zero reason for someone to park outside of the lines of the space they were *trying* to park in.

I know there really are people out there that suck so bad at driving, that it's the best they can do. And that's annoying in its own right. But I think many cases of people taking up two spots, or at least making it extremely difficult for someone to park in the adjoining space, is simply people being inconsiderate.

If I pull into a spot, and think it might be a little tight for a car to get in next to me, I'll back up and straighten it out. It's an extra 15 seconds, tops, and it's going to make the next car's life wayyyy easier. I know if I suck, then somebody is getting a shitty spot, and that's not cool.

But every time I'm at the grocery, there is at least one example of a blatantly bad park job.

My favorite grocery store in town has a lot that they share with a ton of other shops, which causes lots of problems. Whoever designed the lot put nearly all of the "small car" spots in front of the hardware store. For whatever reason, lots of guys in trucks think that it's okay to take up 2 small car spots. It's even more aggravating when they park in a normal spot, but don't pull up all the way so their tailgate is taking up 10-15% of the next space, effectively preventing anybody who doesn't have a Smart Car from using it.

So instead I park in front of the Jimmy Johns.
 

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My favorite grocery store in town has a lot that they share with a ton of other shops, which causes lots of problems. Whoever designed the lot put nearly all of the "small car" spots in front of the hardware store. For whatever reason, lots of guys in trucks think that it's okay to take up 2 small car spots. It's even more aggravating when they park in a normal spot, but don't pull up all the way so their tailgate is taking up 10-15% of the next space, effectively preventing anybody who doesn't have a Smart Car from using it.

So instead I park in front of the Jimmy Johns.

I don't even necessarily mind the guy with the [nice sports car], or the guy with the huge truck with a lift kit and monster-truck tires and dangly-balls on the back, who wants to take up two spaces, as long as they're doing it in the very back where the open spots are, at the sacrifice of their own convenience in terms of proximity to the store.

I just haaaaaaate people that find a way to put their back left/right tire over the line and in the next space over. It makes it extremely difficult to get a car in next to them, where it's not also messing up the next space, thus initiating a chain reaction of shitty parking jobs. It also makes it extremely difficult to exit the space, depending on who's on the other side.

Really chaps my ass.
 

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I agree,... to expand on that, in super crowded lots, one guy jacks up everyone, makes a bunch of cars park outside the lines, you included... you do your shopping, come back out and everyone else is gone so your car looks like you are the only offender... this has happened to me a couple times.
 

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I love when we drive somewhere and it takes five minutes for everyone to get out of the car after I park. WTF did you pack of knobs think was happening next when I positioned the car in a parking space, put the car in park and turned off the engine?!?? Wifey is the worst about this. Drives me bonkers.

This is another inherent trait in women.
 

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My favorite grocery store in town has a lot that they share with a ton of other shops, which causes lots of problems. Whoever designed the lot put nearly all of the "small car" spots in front of the hardware store. For whatever reason, lots of guys in trucks think that it's okay to take up 2 small car spots. It's even more aggravating when they park in a normal spot, but don't pull up all the way so their tailgate is taking up 10-15% of the next space, effectively preventing anybody who doesn't have a Smart Car from using it.

So instead I park in front of the Jimmy Johns.

The Menards near us redid their parking lot. Before changing, the aisles were one way and the parking spaces were angled like most parking lots. They reseal the parking lot and re-striped it so you can go either way down the aisles and the parking spaces are straight in instead of angled. Total cluster f*** now. It's like customers have just been given a test on the Ming Dynasty. They don't have clue what's going on.
 

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The Menards near us redid their parking lot. Before changing, the aisles were one way and the parking spaces were angled like most parking lots. They reseal the parking lot and re-striped it so you can go either way down the aisles and the parking spaces are straight in instead of angled. Total cluster f*** now. It's like customers have just been given a test on the Ming Dynasty. They don't have clue what's going on.

I love Menards. They always carry Sprecher's root beer
 

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I love Menards. They always carry Sprecher's root beer

Not a big fan of Menards. I find the quality of most their products to be of lesser quality than those carried by Hone Depot and Lowes. My wife digs the Sprecher's root beer.
 

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Not a big fan of Menards. I find the quality of most their products to be of lesser quality than those carried by Hone Depot and Lowes. My wife digs the Sprecher's root beer.

Well I'm like the least handy guy ever, so I pretty much go just for the root beer
 

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Not a big fan of Menards. I find the quality of most their products to be of lesser quality than those carried by Hone Depot and Lowes. My wife digs the Sprecher's root beer.

Weird, complete opposite experience up here. Much better selection at Menards as well.
 

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Not a big fan of Menards. I find the quality of most their products to be of lesser quality than those carried by Hone Depot and Lowes. My wife digs the Sprecher's root beer.

My head exploded when i found out Menards was not a local thing. The commercials they have are nothing like any big brand I've seen
 

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My head exploded when i found out Menards was not a local thing. The commercials they have are nothing like any big brand I've seen

You save big money, you save big money, when you shop Menaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaards

Fun fact: My buddy worked there in HS and was required to learn that song.
 
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People standing in doorways, blocking traffic while opening their umbrellas to go from one building to another really grinds my gears. It's 75 feet. Suck it up, keep it moving.
 

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Weird, complete opposite experience up here. Much better selection at Menards as well.

If I'm buying a national brand, then I might get it at Menards, but their lumber, trim, lighting fixtures, lawn and garden are for the poors.
 

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If I'm buying a national brand, then I might get it at Menards, but their lumber, trim, lighting fixtures, lawn and garden are for the poors.

Yeah that's weird. Up here, they have significantly better lumber than my local Lowes. About the same as Home Depot. It's about 20 minutes further drive for me, but if I'm buying any large amount, I make the drive. I recently built a deck (sorry I didn't consult with the board first, shamefully) and bought the majority of my lumber at Menards. Ran out and had to run to Lowes to pick up a couple boards to finish, and head to head they were poorer quality.

Funny how a few hours away things can be different.
 

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Yeah that's weird. Up here, they have significantly better lumber than my local Lowes. About the same as Home Depot. It's about 20 minutes further drive for me, but if I'm buying any large amount, I make the drive. I recently built a deck (sorry I didn't consult with the board first, shamefully) and bought the majority of my lumber at Menards. Ran out and had to run to Lowes to pick up a couple boards to finish, and head to head they were poorer quality.

Funny how a few hours away things can be different.

Decking is hard to find at a big box store. Home Depot had the best options near me and I went through five pallets to find enough decent pieces to build a 120 square foot deck. Kinda ridiculous. They had "premium" boards that would have made it easier but it was for a rental and I wanted to keep the price down. I agree with you on Lowes lumber - it stinks.

Menards drives me nuts and I'll only go there to buy the basics, i.e., screws, nails, nuts/bolts, electric wire/fixtures, simple plumbing, lumber (especially cheap trim) etc. I will never buy another power tool or wireless tool from that place, though. It's always an issue and they aren't as customer friendly as Home Depot with returns/exchanges.

Kinda off topic but Home Depot reduces a ton of lumber to 70% off each week and they set it off to the side. Some of it is absolute garbage but most can be used. Given the price of lumber, it's a great deal for anyone who does small renovations to their home, rental property, or basic woodworking as a hobby. I stock up on 2x4, 2x6, 2x8 and select pine boards and put them in storage. It's saved me quite a bit.
 

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I scrounge the clearance lumber at HD/Lowes periodically. Frequently some decent stuff in there and smaller pieces that can be easier to handle for the types of projects I need it for.

Quick survey - anyone trust that Menards guy in the commercials around small children unattended? Creepy.
 

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I know everyone has annoying family on Facebook but my cousin's wife takes stupidity to the next level. She LITERALLY doesn't know that the word "and" exists. She says "an," and thinks she's using it correctly. Like, "pass the salt an pepper so I can put it on my peas an carrots." How does the public school system fail someone so badly?
 
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I know everyone has annoying family on Facebook but my cousin's wife takes stupidity to the next level. She LITERALLY doesn't know that the word "and" exists. She says "an," and thinks she's using it correctly. Like, "pass the salt an pepper so I can put it on my peas an carrots." How does the public school system fail someone so badly?

Cue Eddy!

He covered his pet peeve in another thread recently.

Catholic schools take all the good students.
 

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EBT at Costco... give me a puppy and I'll kick it over this one.
 
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