That's certainly one way to look at it.
Another is that Dante gave a silent to the staff back in early spring and the staff sat comfortably on their hands waiting for Dante and his family to go public. Only he kept kicking the can down the road while feeling out other schools and their NLI propositions. Eventually, the staff could see how this was likely to play out. They took the 2024 5 star QB, grandson of a Michigan legend, and told him he could reclassify if he wants. He has to make a decision relatively soon so the staff know if they are still recruiting 23 or now recruiting a new 24 QB.
Would you rather have no QBs right now or 1 QB right now? Because that's the only option. Dante is still uncommitted and the staff waited the better part of 2-3 months for him to make his "silent verbal" official and it never came. Meanwhile, CJ said he wanted to commit and did so nearly immediately.
The staff were put in a bad position by the Moore camp, IDGAF what anyone else says (unless they have evidence that Dante never silently committed to ND). The Moores gave their word, then once they had a spot locked up, they went shopping around to see what other deals were out there. The Moores didn't get burned by ND. ND got burned but didn't throw a fit or badmouth Dante, they left it open to Dante but accepted a different QB who was already sold on the program.