Intriguing story....
It's a bit crazy that anyone on this board would think that this possibility in any way involved them --- which is all one could read into some of the emotional quotes. Extremely weird. That sort of "everything in the world is about me" reactionary-ism borders on a form of mental problem. Simply expressing a relatively unemotional opinion that Tee probably can't pull this off [for whatever reason] would, on the other hand, be potentially objective and, thereby, sane and honorable.
Detailed commentaries about what his character consists of, when people probably have never even met the young man nor his family, are also particularly bizarre. What impulses actually related to Tee Shepard could really be at work here? The only thing that I'm reminded of is the mob mentality of a hanging or stoning hysteria.
Refusal to consider even a possibility of honesty in a person, or that anyone could ever get a second chance, particularly when the cost of that to the one screaming for his head is essentially zero, is a one-strike-and-you're-out philosophy which no civilization can endure. Thinking that Notre Dame itself can in any way be hurt by such second-chance giving borders on the preposterous, and should be entirely Notre Dame's call anyway.
Although some people take years to turn their lives around, and others never do, I have also seen people who turned them around rapidly. You get all kinds as a teacher. I flunked a clever, immature "bum" out of WMU his senior year for just, well, being a total bum classroom-wise. He cried a lot. So long, Jack. A full year later, he had restructured his life and returned, hat-in-hand, for a second chance at Environmental Studies Senior Seminar. I told him flat what he had to do. He said he understood that now. He succeeded and even helped others succeed in the class that year. And he graduated. I would NOT have recommended him for grad school and told him so, but I would recommend him for a job. He had grown up.
Tee Shepard's situation is his own, and Notre Dame's, and Coach Kelly's. Their understanding on this topic, when piled up next to ours is like the Andes to the Anthill. People say: I'm entitled to MY opinion!! Fine. Keep it inside your head or at least state it with some unemotional humility.
I always hope for the uncompleted young man to find himself. What-in-the-He!l are we in America all about??