I actually did post much more but I erased it because it wasn't meant for public consumption and it shouldn't have been posted. A couple people saw it before I deleted it, and a couple of my friends on this site asked me through PM and I obliged. This is not a 'look at me' like you suggest, and it's comments like that that make people hesitant to post any info they get. I've been fortunate to have met a lot of people around that have good connections, and when appropriate I have posted the info here. Posts like yours make me wonder why I waste my time with those long *** posts.
Believe what you want; IMO you proved my point. It's all good. Like I said I'm glad TJ said what he said and I hope he's right. I'll gladly eat some major crow when it's announced.
I’m not sure what to believe re: your comments in this thread because I’m not sure exactly what it is that you’re trying to say. You have to expect some of this when you post (as you say) info that isn’t meant for public consumption, then fan the flames about Kelly while simultaneously making others feel like sheep because they don’t believe Kelly will leave.
Just re-reading your comments here it seems to me that you’re one of the people who lost trust in Kelly after the Eagles situation. That seems obvious. It would not surprise me if the people from whom you got any info feel the same way as well, and I think that colors a lot of the perception vis a vis rumors about the contract negotiations.
Do I think it’s a real possibility that Kelly leaves after this year? Sure.
Do I think the contract negotiations (specifically between Kelly and ND) have been more difficult than Swarbrick has been letting on? Yeah, I can absolutely buy that.
Do I think Kelly has a lot of cut-throat in him, is trying to push the envelope with contract demands, and ND is balking on some of those demands? Yup, I can definitely see that.
Do I think that if any or all of the above are true that people who “lost trust in Kelly” earlier this year are going to start mentally preparing themselves for Kelly to leave and talking about it as if it’s inevitable and this fuels a lot of gossip? No doubt about it.
If all you meant to set forth was any of the 3 scenarios above I can believe it, but frankly if that’s all there is to the rumors I don’t think you’ve shed any light on the situation because all of those scenarios are as plain as day.
Now if you’re asking me to believe the following:
That Kelly has wandering eyes and Texas wants him as the head coach for a position that isn’t even open and may not be open after this season but that the situation is still very “real.” That because the contract extension hasn’t been announced yet or even agreed upon that the meter has swung towards Kelly probably leaving after this season. That Kelly is having so much trouble getting what he wants, or that his assistants didn’t get enough of a comfortable package, that there are insiders who know (with much certainty) that Kelly will leave after 2013. Or lastly, that the contract extension won’t be signed at all, the insiders know this, and then Kelly will leave in December.
If all you meant to say was that Kelly could leave and the lack of an announcement is kind of concerning, I think that’s fine, and I also think a lot of people can get behind that. But instead you came in saying things like this:
Don't listen to what (I'll redact the name) said in that other thread about 'what he's hearing'...the contract situation is extremely real, and Kelly leaving is an absolute possibility.
Don’t listen to what someone else is hearing? Why not? Why should we not listen to that person but instead listen to you? Or why can’t we listen to both? You kind of blamed me for calling you out on this, but the way you told everyone not to listen to what others are hearing and then put out a pretty scatter-shot theory brought it upon yourself, I think.
I don’t’ mean to be overly-harsh on you, but I am trying to clarify exactly what “Kelly leaving is an absolute possibility” actually means. I tend to think it’s coming from people who “lost trust in Kelly” and it’s severely coloring their perception on what the future looks like, but I don’t believe they know Kelly is fed up, talking to Texas, the contract won’t be signed, and he’s ready to jet South Bend in a few short months. If you’re trying to get us to believe that I think everyone should be skeptical. If you’re not saying that and just vaguely implying that Kelly could leave, well you aren’t saying much are you?
As an aside, I don’t think the lack of an announcement is really THAT concerning. I don’t even think if the negotiations are still on-going, or if they hit a snag, that it is necessarily a bad thing. Actually, it could be a good thing because it means Kelly is pushing hard for things that will help the program long-term and ND isn’t just throwing him a pile of money and leaving it at that.