I tried to be empathetic to Ronaiah. I really did. I appreciate she has and is facing challenges I don't understand. In the end, I wanted more acknowledgement and personal accountability for the scale of the damage caused. Maybe if she spent more time talking about what she owes, and less about her journey.
I have always hated Deadspin for what they did. Even as this story came back up, I still have friends (who hate ND) convinced that he was in on it, convinced he's gay, and/or even convinced ND made the whole thing up. The doc did make me really wonder how the hell everyone missed this in real time. Did no one in the media or ND PR ever try to rundown Lenay's story? Not even from a speculative perspective - even if just trying to exploit the story further? I also lost any respect for the Deadspin guys for getting the story. An anonymous tip? So you didn't even run this down on your own? You were just first then. Not right. Not proactive and probing. Just first. And wrong.
I also feel really terrible for Manti, worse today than 9 years ago. He is clearly a broken person. I can't even comprehend the shame, humiliation, helplessness and disappointment. To have achieved such glory on the field, yet to be remembered for something else. To have such a loving and supportive family, and yet feel so alone. To have no way to fix this, despite his best efforts. I hope he finds peace and success in another realm.
I conclude that Manti was a hero. And heroes fall. Ultimately, Manti needed a hero, and none could be found. BK, Jack, his agent, Robby, his family, real journalists, etc... may not have been to blame, and perhaps they did their best to help, but none were heroic. And so the hero falls.
Such a sad story.