'12 AZ WR Davonte Neal (Arizona Transfer)

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Well, look, I understand people being annoyed or irritated about the no-show, but turning an 18 year old who is struggling with an important decision into what's emblematic of everything that's wrong in American society, like World Famous Craig Morton tried to do, is laughable.

You are right in that it's a joke to make Davonte the straw that broke the camel's back, but there IS quite a bit wrong with the way this dance has been going in the new millennium. It might seem archaic, but I don't think it is so extreme to hold a 17-18 yr. old responsible for his decisions. A 45-50 year old man (?), even more so. By all means, work it through, but if you need that time, do the responsible thing and let your "guests" know that's what's happening. Just my two.
 

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The school was using this as an opportunity to teach the kids that if you study hard and work hard you'll have a chance to have all the top schools in the country beg you to come there.
Davonte and his family set this whole thing up the school allowed it including allowing all those kids to be pulled out of class for this. The 18 year old had a responsibility to those kids who were being told that Davonte was just like them to show up and say at a minimum "This is a tough choice for me I'm sorry for taking time out of your day like this, but I can't decide." Instead of no showing like he did and keeping all those people waiting for an hour.

I completely agree that he should have showed up. But you didn't answer my question. You are sounding like you are okay with some 30+ year old man taking shots at a senior in high school. And the reasons for this reporters comments are that Davonte and his father appear to be at odds and Davonte's poor decision to not show up.
 

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Really hard to see how he comes to ND after all of this.

The recruiting world has gotten completely out of control.
 

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This just proves to me that when/if we start winning more football games these type of things won't surround us so much.
 

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What I'm basically saying is, it's better for a person to make the right decision, even if it means some annoyance or inconvenience for others, than it is to make the wrong decision out of obligation or pride. I don't know where you get the "average woman/hot woman" thing. I'm not making a qualitative assessment at all. I'd rather my son get stood up at the altar than have a woman who decides she doesn't love him, marry him anyway, and then make him miserable, because she doesn't want to call off the wedding and inconvenience everybody who drove all the way from Coshocton for the wedding.

it was an analogy based off of the example you gave. If he doesnt care about others, then he is really not someone I want on the team, a no-show is the WORST possible thing to do, he should have stepped in and told everyone that he is having conflicts or something and that he is sorry for the inconvenience. The only excuse I will give him is if he had a family emergency, which is being reported...
 

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The school was using this as an opportunity to teach the kids that if you study hard and work hard you'll have a chance to have all the top schools in the country beg you to come there.
Davonte and his family set this whole thing up the school allowed it including allowing all those kids to be pulled out of class for this. The 18 year old had a responsibility to those kids who were being told that Davonte was just like them to show up and say at a minimum "This is a tough choice for me I'm sorry for taking time out of your day like this, but I can't decide." Instead of no showing like he did and keeping all those people waiting for an hour.

Perfectly on point. I think people are missing the point of why this upsets some. No one has a problem with Davonte taking his time and making the right decision for him and his family. But when you set up a news conference to act as a role model and show kids what hard work can do, then no show it, what does that say? It wasn't very classy, and he could have handled it a different way. There's something to the effect of showing kids how to act like an upright individual.

I'm not going to criticize his agony over the decision. We've all been in the position to make huge, life-altering decisions and we've all agonized over them. I realize that it doesn't look good because he's waited for so long after NSD to do so. But keep in mind that for him, this is NSD because he started his recruitment so late. So, it's understandable that he has two tough decisions going on, and his family is supposedly arguing it out, but he should have handled the situation with the kids much better. This wasn't simply blowing off a regular news conference or even doing it at his high school.

That being said, I don't think any of us know what's going on, so I digress haha.
 

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Really hard to see how he comes to ND after all of this.

The recruiting world has gotten completely out of control.

I agree, I would be shocked if he chose ND and cant see it being a joyful sight for him if he does. This stinks on a lot of levels.
 

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If the kids really bought into Devonte Neal is just like me then they will all be absent from school tomorrow. Zing Sauce
 

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I'm not either. I'm looking for a bone too, lol.

Bone Bone Bone Bone, Bone Bone Bone Bone Bone.

Luke wants Notre Dame, Davonte wants Arizona. Both Kelly and RichRod called last night which muddied the waters. No clue how it will end or when it will end.
 

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I completely agree that he should have showed up. But you didn't answer my question. You are sounding like you are okay with some 30+ year old man taking shots at a senior in high school. And the reasons for this reporters comments are that Davonte and his father appear to be at odds and Davonte's poor decision to not show up.
And I am ok with that fact it's the man's choice to say that.
Just like it was the man's choice not to show up.
Morgan freely admitted that as a father it made him mad.
That Davonte had a responsibility to the kids to show up and say something.
He chose not to.
Any parent of any child in that school should be upset that the local hero stood those children up.
 

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Really hard to see how he comes to ND after all of this.

The recruiting world has gotten completely out of control.

I totally agree. This is sad for sure. I was really rooting for Neal no matter where he chose but I am disappointed with the way this was handled. Not sure if he goes to Notre Dame now. This just kind of adds to the disappointment of this past recruiting season IMO.
 
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When I think of kids that go past NSD to announce where they are going I think Seanthrel Henderson, Bryce Brown….and now Davonte Neal.
 

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I agree, I would be shocked if he chose ND and cant see it being a joyful sight for him if he does. This stinks on a lot of levels.

Agreed. The curse of the news conference (or lack thereof) continues. I can't imagine a scenario where Davonte wanted to go to ND, as Phillip Daniels suggested, and his Dad was steadfastly against his son going there. That makes zero sense - what parent would say, "no son, I don't want you attending Notre Dame." More likely, as everyone has said, that Davonte wantes Zona and his Dad ND. And kids usually win out, barring some Gunner Kiel luck here.
 

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lets just wait and see....could have had a fender bender or any other number of "family emegencies".

the sky is not falling
 

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Here is my question to everyone. Has there been any real, solid evidence to prove that there is this chasm between him and his father? Or could this simply be actually a family emergency, or the talking with the coaches took longer than expected. I, along with a few others, will with hold judgment until this whole things gets sorted out and we hear what is happening behind closed doors from the family themselves, not speculating reporters.
 
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