The pearl clutching about nuclear war is understandable. It’s one of the few things that one can logically clutch their pearls about because it’s such a game changer for life as we know it.
Risking the end of the world is a BFD.
With that being said, the idea that we should capitulate to any regime with WMDs is rife with issues. If you draw the line at “well as long as they don’t attack NATO” it begs the question of what we would do if they attacked a NATO country?
Let's hope we never find out.
Let’s say Putin wakes up and decides he wants to invade Romania next… do we still not do anything because he has nukes?
Yes, because Article 5 of NATO requires we do so. If a NATO member got invaded and we did nothing, the international order we've spent decades building would fall to pieces immediately.
If we would, then there is no discernible difference to intervention in Ukraine.
Not true. Ukraine
borders Russia, which is the nuclear-armed (former) great power that NATO was created to contain. That's one of many reasons why they're not presently a member of NATO or the EU. To grant Ukraine the same security guarantees we've extended to Poland would require putting American missiles on a Russian border, which would be a hugely provocative act.
At some point you have to make a stand, it’s just a question of when unless you believe in appeasement or regime change. And by “intervention” I don’t mean that the US should be sending A10 warthogs to blow up convoys but I do mean that supplying planes through NATO airspace, allowing operations to be run out of neighboring countries via contractors, etc. isn’t asking much.
There are a lot of options between "appeasement" and "regime change". But our media is certainly presenting everything in terms of that false dichotomy.
Similarly, what happens when Iran and North Korea get nukes? If the idea is that when they’re armed we need to kowtow to these ideologues, then we should already be considering preemptive strikes. Which seems out of the question… and means that the answer is probably to simply *not* just let anyone with a nuke do whatever they want to a neighboring country.
North Korea already has nukes. What it lacks is the technology to create ICBMs that could threaten American cities. But they were primarily interested in keeping us from invading, which they've accomplished, because we can't do that without watching Seoul get vaporized.
And why do preemptive strikes to stop a rogue regime from acquiring nukes seem out of the question to you? I'd argue that's one of the few cases where aggressive action could clearly be justified. Israel has already done this several times against Iran. And the only reason we haven't done this to North Korea already is because they're a Chinese protectorate.
I will say that I’ve been mostly impressed with the sanctions and there is no way that Putin maintains the status quo if he want to retain power. But meanwhile, we’re tacitly endorsing war crimes.
We're not tacitly endorsing anything. We've done everything short of direct military engagement.
When you're holding the world's biggest hammer, there's a temptation to see every problem as a nail. I understand the frustration with seeing conventional military aggression that we could easily stop and being unable to use that awesome hammer. But nukes simply take certain options off the table. We've made it almost 80 years in the nuclear age without destroying the planet, and there's an argument to be made that the Pax Americana has been so effective
precisely because WMDs prevent great powers from engaging in the sort of super-destructive conflicts that marred the first half of the 20th century.
As far as this debate goes, I'd suggest reconciling yourself to the fact that NATO will never willingly initiate a conventional war against a nuclear power, and focus instead on how to minimize casualties, undermine Putin and bring Russia back into the fold. Some of the options currently on the table run the risk of driving Russia into the arms of China and causing them to create a separate monetary union. If the $USD ceases to be the reserve currency for the world economy,
that will destabilize things far more than whatever is happening in Ukraine.