I think it went down like this:
IM's grades and tests scores were at a 6.
He needed his grades and test scores to be an 8 to get into college.
He still needs his grades and test scores to be a 10 in order to get into ND.
Before he reached an 8, there was no use in anyone talking to him. He couldn't qualify to go to college, let alone ND or a school with above average requirements.
Alford and ND pushed him hard and he responded. But for a kid with a history of struggling in the classroom, this was tough work. It sucked to study this much when all he wanted to do was play football.
IM has a great showing on a national stage last week. He started to show up on more college coaches' radars.
IM's grades come in and suddenly he is at an 8, so other school's coaches make contact. They congratulate him and tell him he could enroll with them right now.
Those coach's recruiting pitches are now: IM, great work getting those grades up. You are a take for us right now. And by the way, you know how much you hated how hard the classroom work was going from a 6 to an 8? Its gonna be even harder for you to go from an 8 to a 10, so why not just coast your last semester and come to Florida or Oregon? And if you think it was hard to go from a 6 to an 8, IM, it is going to be 10x harder when the homework isn't high school math and studying for a standardized test. Its going to be classes at Notre Dame, where the average student is a rich white kid with a 34 ACT. IM, haven't you seen what happened to Golson? It was so hard he resorted to cheating and then they kicked him out for a semester. Hell, they even suspended their #1 WR for the spring semester because of his grades.
Bottom line, the fact that he is looking around should not surprise anyone. Even if he ends up coming to ND, it would be a constant struggle to keep him eligible. Due to his size and position (or lack thereof) as a specialist, he is a luxury. Would it be nice to have him returning punts? Sure, but no team has ever not won a championship and said it was because they fair caught punts too often.