As for who's next... anyone think West on the 20th? Seems to be a lot of momentum in that direction and I don't really know what other offers he could be waiting on besides maybe Michigan/Ohio State. He clearly wants to make a decision sooner rather than later as he was supposedly about to commit to Kentucky a couple weeks ago before cancelling the press conference.
If his offer is committable, I think he could definitely pop for ND if we put the press on.
I know Whiskey had a post (or maybe it was yours Lax) about how do we distinguish the kids/families like the Anzalone's and Vanderdoes'.
Isn't the situation you have outlined above seem like somewhat of a red flag?
When I say that it isn't my impression of the kid or his family as I know neither. That said, if a kid almost commits, postpones, yet still wants to get a commitment over with. Shouldn't that make you take a step back and dig a little deeper. Rushed decisions usually don't tend out to be "the right decision."
However, if he commits on the 20th, that isn't to say he hasn't sat down and really thought it through either.
I know the other side of it is take his commitment and do everything you can to hold on from then on as it is better than NOT having his commitment.