In truth, Beau, "Gentlemen's Club" is not as private as you think. The ability to add to the discussion is restricted to members, but viewing is open to anyone who cares to click on it. I suppose that puts moderator supervision and intervention in something of a "situational ethics" sphere. I check in on your band of merry miscreants on occasion without paying dues or wearing the official blazer with the "I'm Not a Deviant, Just an Art Lover" patch on the left breast pocket.