Shortsighted decision? Sure. But it's his life and a free country.
On a personal level, it's just funny to me how little I care. Two years ago, when I first started following recruiting, I would probably lost it. Maybe I'm jaded now... maybe I'm more realistic... but the bottom line is I just don't care. Because what's the point in caring?
The best question asked in that press conference was at the 9 minute mark. Paraphrasing, Kelly was asked about the type of kids they're recruiting and if they need to do more due diligence on them to make sure they're a fit for ND. For Aaron, I don't think that applies. You can't predict that someone is going to have the emotional pull back to his "home" like he did. We've all gone over the reasons why, and it's not really important how we view their validity.
But that question DOES apply to David Perkins, Deontay Greenberry, Tee Shepard, Ronald Darby, etc. I think Kelly has learned, albeit the tough way, to not waste time with kids who about "swag" and not about the classroom.
If you're prima donna at age 17.... you're not going to make it at ND. Period. When I think about how our lacrosse team recruits, we target guys who are first and foremost mental fits for what we want to be as a team. There are just as many headcases that are star prep lacrosse players as there are football players.... albeit, usually a different kind of entitlement but entitlement none the less. Kid got in trouble for smoking weed? He can go to Maryland. Kid shows immaturity?
He can go to Virginia. We don't want him.
That's the approach we need to take for football. If a kid is a fit, you take him. If a kid wants to "commit" and still take all of his OVs, you tell him to come back when he's ready to shut it down and his spot might be gone. Enough passing on kids who want to be here in favor of kids with more perceived talent that don't.
Lastly, I applaud Kelly for taking the approach he did. He could've pandered to Lynch like Urban Meyer pandered to headcases at Florida. Or tried to break NCAA rules and get his girlfriend a job in South Bend. Instead he chose the team over the hyper-talented individual. Maybe that doesn't seem like a good move now in the short term, but it's completely necessary for the long term.