Dude, I've been in the same place you are right now at least twice before and thought everything was a gigantic mess. I was so in love with these two girls (in each situation, not at the same time lol) and I thought my whole world was crushed. But, what I learned from that experience is what you will too: It's ok. In fact, I had an epiphany the other day (or what drunks like to refer to as a moment of clarity). I figured out the secret to life. Not the secret of life like "why are we here?"...but the secret to life in how to be successful, confident, ok, strong and at peace with everything. Wanna know what it is? Two words.
Don't Panic.
When I was in high school, all I wanted was a girlfriend. I got to college, and was much, much more popular with women. Today, I'm married to a VERY beautiful woman that could easily model was hot enough to be a feature dancer at her strip club she used to work for. All that time I thought "This is the girl I'll be married to!" were COMPLETELY wrong. I couldn't possibly imagine being with those women now that I know my wife today. In fact, I look back and think "Wow...they were NOTHING what I would want today" and back then, they were my whole world! I would have never even listened to that talk then.
The "Don't Panic" concept applies to everything if you look deep enough into the issue. Work, school, career path, self confidence....if you just stop worrying, believe in yourself and don't let yourself get rushed or panic about where or what you are in life, it really really helps.
