Would be a loss for both him and us. Remember, 40 year decision.
it really would be a loss if he leaves, i thought he could play a major role in the defensive back field, if not this year then in the ones to come.
but personally i would rather him be a great father rather than just provide us with entertainment on saturday afternoons.
lets hope these are just rumors though and he stays within the ND family
it really would be a loss if he leaves, i thought he could play a major role in the defensive back field, if not this year then in the ones to come.
but personally i would rather him be a great father rather than just provide us with entertainment on saturday afternoons.
lets hope these are just rumors though and he stays within the ND family
I have a kid in my class (5th grade)....
it really would be a loss if he leaves, i thought he could play a major role in the defensive back field, if not this year then in the ones to come.
but personally i would rather him be a great father rather than just provide us with entertainment on saturday afternoons.
lets hope these are just rumors though and he stays within the ND family
I have a kid in my class (5th grade)...dad is a gangster, mom is on and off drugs; divorced with a restraining order on the dad and the whole 9 yards. He's a great kid, smart and extremely athletic, and LOVES to come to school b/c it's his only safe place. After all he's been through in his life (the latest being his dad beating his mom to a pulp and threatening to kill her, it's amazing that he still does well in school. He can be a problem at times and he can't shut up, but he's a cute kid with a great personality.
Well, this week he hasn't shown up to school. He had just moved so we had no new address and his mom's cell phone was disconnected. We had to call child services. Turns out we heard from a 3rd party that his mom is on drugs and they've been on and off the streets. He's as skinny as a rail b/c his mom spends all her money on drugs. When I found out today my heart sunk; it's depressing and disheartening, and it pisses me off beyond all reason. He deserves so much better.
The reason I bring this up is that the kid is screwed up, largely b/c his dad (and his mom) is such a screw up and this kid has seen too much in his life. He has very little chance to succeed. And Boyd wants to be there for his child, well, seeing what I've seen as an educator in the heart of Los Angeles, well, I can't really blame him. In fact I applaud him (assuming he leaves for this reason). Yes, the ND degree is a 40 year decision, but his son having a strong father for his formative years is perhaps an 80 year decision.
Either way he chooses, we should support him. I'd love for him to be able to work it out somehow and stay, but if he leaves, may he be the best father possible (and get that degree wherever you go Spencer!).
I have a kid in my class (5th grade)...dad is a gangster, mom is on and off drugs; divorced with a restraining order on the dad and the whole 9 yards. He's a great kid, smart and extremely athletic, and LOVES to come to school b/c it's his only safe place. After all he's been through in his life (the latest being his dad beating his mom to a pulp and threatening to kill her, it's amazing that he still does well in school. He can be a problem at times and he can't shut up, but he's a cute kid with a great personality.
Well, this week he hasn't shown up to school. He had just moved so we had no new address and his mom's cell phone was disconnected. We had to call child services. Turns out we heard from a 3rd party that his mom is on drugs and they've been on and off the streets. He's as skinny as a rail b/c his mom spends all her money on drugs. When I found out today my heart sunk; it's depressing and disheartening, and it pisses me off beyond all reason. He deserves so much better.
The reason I bring this up is that the kid is screwed up, largely b/c his dad (and his mom) is such a screw up and this kid has seen too much in his life. He has very little chance to succeed. And Boyd wants to be there for his child, well, seeing what I've seen as an educator in the heart of Los Angeles, well, I can't really blame him. In fact I applaud him (assuming he leaves for this reason). Yes, the ND degree is a 40 year decision, but his son having a strong father for his formative years is perhaps an 80 year decision.
Either way he chooses, we should support him. I'd love for him to be able to work it out somehow and stay, but if he leaves, may he be the best father possible (and get that degree wherever you go Spencer!).