Prayers for your wife and son, for real. You are correct that most actual life events trump football.
However, this board is an athletic board supporting (or, in this weekend’s case, castigating) ND and you just basically admitted to being a reversible jacket IU fan, “until they got good.”
The pro-IU schtick on this board is beyond tired. You’re more Tom Haverford than you are Bishop or TTT. If it’s supposed to be humorous, you aren’t very adept at it.
It’s not hard. Quit with the trope or go log onto Peegs.