Some folks are very negative, some are totally Pollyanna. I mean, you have the "Why can't we be like Alabama School" and you have the "Don't you say mean things about any Irish coach or player -- everything's great -

" School; some tend to be in some gradation of these two schools.
The biggest group of IE posters, though, are in a middle, (to me) more interesting school that would like ND to be a top tier football program, without the warts that the Factories have, and still maintain our Catholic (but welcoming to all), traditional, special character, and they are tough, but fair critics. This view allows sharp criticism of players, the coaches, the school and the program, but loves it all, underneath, but knows it can and should be better, and they voice that. Not that the other two groups don't love the school -- they definitely do -- but those loves are either too tough or too soft, in my opinion.
Personally, I get more frustrated with the "everything's great" School, because I think it is the midwife of mediocrity, which I don't want ND to be. This is why, though I generally like Kelly and think he's a pretty good coach, I really dislike his "It's
tough to win college football games; I'm always happy with a win _____(fill in the blank) on the road/against a stubborn service academy/in the opener" plea at press conferences, which I think is a massive cop out. Sure it's tough, and he's right on the surface, and I rather win than lose, too. But the way he says it, it sounds like an excuse, and I think the team lives down to that standard a little in its inconsistent play.
Good teams -- and ND ought to be one of the best -- should be able to generally kick the h-ell out of the Navys and Pitts of the world. A tough game -- let down/look ahead situations, I get -- but narrow wins vs. Navy, Purdue, Temple are just not what we -- or Kelly -- should find acceptable. I know you want to be optimistic as a coach, but he needs to express love of his team but less patience with his product in public, and really ought to make some changes in private -- both among less than superb coaches and underachieving players.
I know this is a little off the topic of banned users, but to me this is what is underneath all the angst.