Do you know him personally or know of the story, other than the little blurb linked above? I personally don't, but I cannot tell if this is something that is the "tip of an iceberg" where perhaps he feels neglected by the staff, or if this isn't the first time they have messed up with him. I also can respect the fact that you are putting your trust and future in the hands of a coaching staff that proclaims their love for you and maybe, just maybe, you think it could be lip service based on their actions? There are lots of plausible reasons for doing this, including the one you mentioned. However, unless you have first hand information to support your claim, I wouldn't be so quick to throw this back on the kid.
He claims, his own words, that they spelled his name wrong and he didn't get to go to the BBQ which made him feel like he wasn't a priority.
Which, even if that isn't his reason, is asinine to even bring up as your reason and trigger a decommit.
From what his high school coach said, it was BS..
Lee County coach Dean Fabrizio says he hasn't discussed the decommitment with Solomon, but he doesn't believe the botched letter is the main reason.
"I don't think that was a major role," Fabrizio said. "I think it was his family taking the time to think about things and make sure they explore all their opportunities. I'm sure that he and his family have been thinking about this, but I don't think it was a rash decision."
Don't take some petty action and use it to decommit to make the school look bad, which is exactly what Solomon just tried to do. Just admit you want to be close to home.