I'm not going to rag on the dude. I've been in some bad places with it in the past and still deal with it from time to time.
It's not fun and, unfortunately, it can often leave you feeling slighted if you feel you're not being accommodated accordingly. GAD is a bitch.
When I was coming back from my deployment, I wanted to go to MH and finally get some clarity on some of the issues I've been having. Unfortunately, this was right when COVID hit and the lockdowns were taking place.
A lot of things weighing on my mind and no real outlet, because COVID heavily restricted our access to in-person mental health care. It got to the point, where I checked myself into the ER just to be seen. I had so much anxiety, I'd spend hours some days literally shell shocked and frozen, sitting in my car or in an empty room just trying to make sense of everything.
For a good couple of weeks, I was dealing with some severe anxiety attacks. Felt trapped, felt like the rest of the world was going 100 mph around me. And I felt that I finally was seeking help like they had told me to do, and I was getting no answer. And when I finally went to MH, and didn't get the answer I wanted/expected, I just got more bitter and anxiety-ridden. I was very much angry at how the military healthcare system treated me.
Thankfully, I did manage to handle it and overcame that dark period. Everything seemed to work out in the end. My orders were canceled thankfully, due to COVID, I got into therapy and got medication. I just had to take a breath, be patient and let things unfold. I had to learn that I can't let myself panic over what I couldn't control, which for me, is easier said than done. But once I let some time pass, I just focused on what I could control and do mine, and let everything else sort itself out.
Unfortunately, the victimhood/entitlement complex runs part and parcel with a lot of people dealing with anxiety. It's not healthy and it can ruin your relationships. For Ziegler, he may just need to take time, continue getting help, and take perspective on what you can and can't control.