next update will be “ND bows out of Bowen sweepstakes,” regardless if if it was NDs choice or Bowen’s.
I’m fine either way tbh. More important here is the clear lack of guidance for Bowen. If he is truly this conflicted to the point of making an impulsive last second decision to back out on a pledge he made 11 months prior then he needs to be guided better by both parents. If this is a money grab I would argue all parties need to some guidance but that’s a difference of opinions on goals. It is one of a parents’ main job to impart values and beliefs to guide their child’s decisions to become a better adult. If, as is implied, he made a poor choice in the most important moment of his young life then I’d argue there’s a failure in this job.
I’m fine either way tbh. More important here is the clear lack of guidance for Bowen. If he is truly this conflicted to the point of making an impulsive last second decision to back out on a pledge he made 11 months prior then he needs to be guided better by both parents. If this is a money grab I would argue all parties need to some guidance but that’s a difference of opinions on goals. It is one of a parents’ main job to impart values and beliefs to guide their child’s decisions to become a better adult. If, as is implied, he made a poor choice in the most important moment of his young life then I’d argue there’s a failure in this job.
