18Yr Old Sues for Support After Moving Out

[Pops Freshenmeyer]

I was wondering if there were some issues between the Freeholder (that's a County Commissioner is other states) and the former police chief.

Yeah, there has to be some weird local subtext here. For one thing, her parents took the bizarre and idiotic decision to actually go on the offensive against their daughter in public.

 

[Jason Pham]

If you thought that a dysfunctional child is likely to have come from a dysfunctional family, you've been vindicated. An update was posted with the following bizarre-gets-even-more-bizarre highlights:

* She claims her weight dropped to 92 pounds after developing an eating disorder in sophomore year
* In court papers she claims her father said she was 'more' than just a daughter to him and he kissed her on the cheek inappropriately

'My mom called me porky and my dad got me drunk and told me I was more than just his daughter': Explosive claims of 'spoiled' cheerleader, 18, suing parents to support her after she ran away | Mail Online

 

[kmoose]

Really? Given what I've read about her, she'd be bitchin' and griping every second.

Ow that hurts, what are you doing?, stop I don't like that, I'm not doing that, hurry up and finish!

That's what they make ball gags for.

 

[IrishinTN]

If you thought that a dysfunctional child is likely to have come from a dysfunctional family, you've been vindicated. An update was posted with the following bizarre-gets-even-more-bizarre highlights:



'My mom called me porky and my dad got me drunk and told me I was more than just his daughter': Explosive claims of 'spoiled' cheerleader, 18, suing parents to support her after she ran away | Mail Online

 

[ACamp1900]

donkey punch?

There is a really good brewery in Redlands, CA called Donkey Punch.

 

[BGIF]

Bull crap

There are economic barriers in place that weren't around for previous generations.

You could work through college on a min wage job. Only students that had large debts were grad students. You had places like California University that were completely free in the 60s.

Don't you ever tire of posting this bullshit?

Generations, plural?

Did they stop teaching about one room schoolhouses?

Did The Great Depression not happen?

Hello World War II, Korea, Vietnam ... ?

Before the GI Bill it was predominately the wealthy that went to college.

I was the first college graduate in my family. My dad had gone for a semester but came home because his dad was ill and his mom was working three jobs to pay for college. His first job was as a repro man, stealing back cars for the fiance company he worked for.

I worked through HS when my dad got ill. There was no health insurance, government or otherwise, we paid our own way. If we couldn't afford it, whatever IT was, we did without.

My oldest sister got married out of HS. The second sister got a 2 year associates degree as a bi-lingual secretary from the Latin American Institute and she worked while going to school. I was headed to ND when my dad died my senior year of HS. With two small kids at home my career plans took a sharp detour. I stayed instate at a college wizards would scorn. Bottom line, it was affordable.

I worked 18 jobs while in college to pay my own way. I ran the student center, drove a beer truck, schlepped furniture for a moving company for a couple of summers and during semester breaks and graduated debt free. Of course most of my classmates didn't drive new SUVs and have $500 cell phones, today's bare necessities of life.

We didn't get free lunches in school, if it wasn't in the budget we did without.

My younger sister and brother also went to schools wizards would look down his nose at. Our mom died while they were both in school. They got jobs worked hard, perserved in school and at work and both graduated debt free and have 6 figure incomes today.

Yes, things were lower priced then probably because the minimum wage was under a buck and we didn't have to pay for everybody else's entitlements. We were entitled to what we earned.

And we didn't whine incessantly about what life being unfair, we didn't have time.

 

[gkIrish]

If you thought that a dysfunctional child is likely to have come from a dysfunctional family, you've been vindicated. An update was posted with the following bizarre-gets-even-more-bizarre highlights:



'My mom called me porky and my dad got me drunk and told me I was more than just his daughter': Explosive claims of 'spoiled' cheerleader, 18, suing parents to support her after she ran away | Mail Online

I blame the parents.

First response to the OP

 

[connor_in]

Unfortunately, that girl looks a lot like my daughter. I'd post a picture but I like Irishhog too much to get mad at him for making comments about her.

"making comments"? ONLY that?

 

[wizards8507]

In court papers she claims her father said she was 'more' than just a daughter to him and he kissed her on the cheek inappropriately.

 

[wizards8507]

Hi mom just to let you know you're a real f**king winner aren't you you think you're so cool and you think you caught me throwing up in the bathroom after eating an egg frittatta, yeah sorry that you have problems now and you need to harp on mine because i didn't and i actually took a s*** which i really just wanna s*** all over your face right now because it looks like that anyway, anyway i f***ing hate you and um I've written you off so don't talk to me, don't do anything I'm blocking you from just about everything, have a nice life, bye mom.

This is the greatest story of any story.

 

[Redbar]

I just texted my parents with:

The standard has now been sent. You two bastards will be hearing from my lawyer!!!

lol

chicago should sue....

Camp is en fuego!

 

[ACamp1900]

Aside from the obvious... What father would look at his little girl as "just a daughter"??

wtf?

 

[NDohio]

and thinking seriously about cutting off a boyfriend her parents has a bad influence on her

Rachel has been living with the family of her best friend Jaime Inglesino. His father is attorney and former Morris County Freeholder John Inglesino, who is funding Rachel’s case.

Does anybody else wonder if these two quotes are related to one another? Is her best friend actually her boyfriend? Is the father of the boyfriend offended that his son might be part of the problem?

I agree with Whiskey - Inglesino is way out of line here.

 

[Catholics_Rule]

The kid is an entitled little brat that was probably never told "no" in her life up until this point. Tough love goes a long way.

As a side note, I had to pay my own way when I moved away from home. Car, insurance, rent, college, etc; My father worked and my mother didnt work, they just couldn't afford to help me. Plus they had 3 other kids besides me. It was difficult and I missed many opportunities in college but it taught me to work hard in life and you only get what you put in. I'm only in my mid 30s but reading something like this is disturbing to me.

 

[ACamp1900]

I think all us 30+ something’s should get together and class action the under 30 generation for screwing the damn pooch...

 

[IrishLax]

If you thought that a dysfunctional child is likely to have come from a dysfunctional family, you've been vindicated. An update was posted with the following bizarre-gets-even-more-bizarre highlights:

'My mom called me porky and my dad got me drunk and told me I was more than just his daughter': Explosive claims of 'spoiled' cheerleader, 18, suing parents to support her after she ran away | Mail Online

First response to the OP

GK I'm not sure if you're serious or not. I read Jason's link, and everything else, and I'd bet my life she is liar liar pants on fire here. She seems completely full of it.

 

[gkIrish]

GK I'm not sure if you're serious or not. I read Jason's link, and everything else, and I'd bet my life she is liar liar pants on fire here. She seems completely full of it.

I'm half serious. Don't believe a word she says but ultimately the parents are responsible. Would bet my life that they didn't raise her right.

 

[tussin]

Do "excellent students" go to the University of Vermont, William Paterson University, Lynn University, or Wells College? I've only ever heard of one of those and that's because "Vermont" is a state.

Didn't want to be the guy to say it, but no.

 

[Irishnuke]

I do not believe a single word this psycho bitch says.

It's also not always the parents fault. I'd say they deserve some of the blame, but this kid is fucked in the head. Her other sisters don't appear to be psycho. Maybe she's bi-polar.

 

[PANDFAN]

I do not believe a single word this psycho bitch says.

It's also not always the parents fault. I'd say they deserve some of the blame, but this kid is fucked in the head. Her other sisters don't appear to be psycho. Maybe she's bi-polar.

behavior like this is more borderline personality...bipolar-completely different animal

 

[greyhammer90]

In before someone starts talking about "kids these days"

Oh... Too late.

 

[IrishSteelhead]

I'm no lawyer, so maybe this is wrong:

Her parents failed attempt to raise her right (if that's the case) has absolutely zero bearing on if they owe her money. Dud or no dud, she gets nothing. This is an open and shut case right?

 

[chicago51]

Am I alone in thinking John Inglesino is the real piece of shit here, and not this run-of-the-mill entitled brat?

I second this.

 

[chicago51]

I'm no lawyer, so maybe this is wrong:

Her parents failed attempt to raise her right (if that's the case) has absolutely zero bearing on if they owe her money. Dud or no dud, she gets nothing. This is an open and shut case right?

Facts count for something but sometimes they don't carry the same weight in a court room as they do in what you might call reality.

 

[BGIF]

On one of the lunchtime news programs it was reported that there is NJ law on the issue of financial support for school. I didn't hear details or a cite.

Back in the last millenium when I lived in NJ, my next door neighbors had a problem with their 18 year old HS senior. Seems she wanted to go on an overnight field trip to NYC with her HS Drama Club to see some Broadway shows. The mom got wind that several males and females including her daughter planned to "swap" room assignments. Mom refused to sign the permission slip on the basis that we lived 30 minutes from the Theater District and there was no need for a hotel room, tactfully avoiding the shacking up issue.

The daughter cried in class about her draconian parents and how she was "abused". One 20 something teacher pointed out that as she was 18, she was free to make her own decisions and gave her the name of an attorney.

At dinner she announced that she had retained legal counsel, was "a free woman" and was going on the trip. Dad got up and walked to his home office. He returned a few minutes later and told her he would drive her to see her attorney tomorrow. She interrupted to point out she could drive herself in her own car. Dad then handed her a stack of bills for said car including the bill of sale, registration fees, insurance, and repairs. "You never owned a car. It's in my name and all the expenses have been paid by me. Be sure to show those to your attorney as I just called the newspaper and placed an ad to sell that car which I own."

Daddy introduced The Golden Rule, "He who has the gold rules."

I knew them for 5 or 6 years. They were good parents to their 3 kids. As I recall her lawyer told her she did have rights and she was free to exercise them but she best get a place to stay and job to pay for it before cutting the cord. The revolution ended there.

Kids and parents have been going through this since families began. Then came the lawyers.

 

[Corry]

Sure, but those ain't them.



My MAcc degree is from a similarly unheralded school, Stetson University.

I live 15 minutes from Stetson. Very beautiful campus.

 

[CanadianIrish]

I'm a divorce lawyer and deal with child support constantly. Obviously I'm in Canada not New Jersey, but the parents would be in some trouble here. The issue would be had she withdrawn from "parental control" by leaving the house for no good reason. Given quotes from the parents and daughter, I suspect the law is similar in NJ.

Child support does not end at 18 in most jurisdictions. It continues until a child is done post-secondary ( generally one degree with increasing responsibility to pay for it yourself the older you get). That's in Canada at least (out child support laws are national).

 

[Irish#1]

Don't you ever tire of posting this bullshit?

Generations, plural?

Did they stop teaching about one room schoolhouses?

Did The Great Depression not happen?

Hello World War II, Korea, Vietnam ... ?

Before the GI Bill it was predominately the wealthy that went to college.

I was the first college graduate in my family. My dad had gone for a semester but came home because his dad was ill and his mom was working three jobs to pay for college. His first job was as a repro man, stealing back cars for the fiance company he worked for.

I worked through HS when my dad got ill. There was no health insurance, government or otherwise, we paid our own way. If we couldn't afford it, whatever IT was, we did without.

My oldest sister got married out of HS. The second sister got a 2 year associates degree as a bi-lingual secretary from the Latin American Institute and she worked while going to school. I was headed to ND when my dad died my senior year of HS. With two small kids at home my career plans took a sharp detour. I stayed instate at a college wizards would scorn. Bottom line, it was affordable.

I worked 18 jobs while in college to pay my own way. I ran the student center, drove a beer truck, schlepped furniture for a moving company for a couple of summers and during semester breaks and graduated debt free. Of course most of my classmates didn't drive new SUVs and have $500 cell phones, today's bare necessities of life.

We didn't get free lunches in school, if it wasn't in the budget we did without.

My younger sister and brother also went to schools wizards would look down his nose at. Our mom died while they were both in school. They got jobs worked hard, perserved in school and at work and both graduated debt free and have 6 figure incomes today.

Yes, things were lower priced then probably because the minimum wage was under a buck and we didn't have to pay for everybody else's entitlements. We were entitled to what we earned.

And we didn't whine incessantly about what life being unfair, we didn't have time.

LOL............Wait till he gets some age on him.

 

[Irishnuke]

I'm a divorce lawyer and deal with child support constantly. Obviously I'm in Canada not New Jersey, but the parents would be in some trouble here. The issue would be had she withdrawn from "parental control" by leaving the house for no good reason. Given quotes from the parents and daughter, I suspect the law is similar in NJ.

Child support does not end at 18 in most jurisdictions. It continues until a child is done post-secondary ( generally one degree with increasing responsibility to pay for it yourself the older you get). That's in Canada at least (out child support laws are national).

Did you get all of your neg reps because you're a divorce lawyer? Because that would be awesome.

 

[Irishnuke]

Btw, bitch lost her case.

Rachel Canning Loses Effort to Make Parents Pay High School Tuition - ABC News