It is not good that 4 of our best recruits that kelly has been able to reel in are gone. Lynch, Prestwood, Kiel, Neal. That's not exactly a great trend.
Happens to every school, and all of those are examples of guys who either are not all in for what ND is about (Prestwood and Lynch), have extenuating circumstances at home (Neal), or are leaving because they can't beat out superior talent BK has reeled in (Kiel).
I don't know how you came blame Kelly, or even be disturbed, by (1) a kid not knowing what he wants / want is important, choosing to leave and then turning around and trying to come back, (2) a kid having to leave ND because he cared to much about partying that he didn't keep his grades in order, (3) a kid leaving because another of BK's recruits is so good in his eyes he wants to leave to see playing time, and (4) another kid who didn't want to leave ND, but chose to in order to be able to support a new born child.
I am sorry, but I don't see a pattern there that causes me any concern. These are teenagers we are recruiting to play football - there are always going to be issues here and there. It sucks that some of them are high

guys, but oh well. I will live and die with the guys who choose to come here, and then do what is necessary to stay.
There are enough high talent guys BK has reeled in to go 12-0, before our highest profile class even reaches ND. Think about that. None of those players you mentioned, along with the other lost recruits, had any impact on ND, yet we still made it to that NC with a RS Frosh QB last year.
If you take a step back and see the big picture, there is nothing to see here.