Really? Sort of like the ACA can't force religious institutions to provide insurance for controversial medical services?
I would point out that a standardized level of insurance (and a reasonable disagreement about what constitutes a religious institution) is different then demanding that a Jewish Baker make a certain type of bread. You certainly can understand that difference.
Communion hosts are just unleavened bread, which is (not uncoincidentally) used in the Jewish Passover. So it would not be strange to find sacramental bread in a Jewish bakery. And if an orthodox Jewish baker decided he was uncomfortable selling to a Catholic patron because his wares would later be utilized in a mystical rite to which he doesn't subscribe, he should absolutely be allowed to refuse such business. And one would hope that the Catholic patron, as a fellow "son of Abraham" and a respectful member of the same community, wouldn't choose to act like a litigious as$hole and sue the orthodox Jewish baker over it.
I am starting to see what some of the problem is, but I will talk more about it towards the end of the post.
This is the equivalent of an ad hominem argument. If you've got a problem with the law or how it's likely to be employed, site to its text, or to the legal precedent set by the Federal RFRA of 1993 or the 19 other state versions of it which have been on the books for decades already.
No it is different and covers businesses. Also if you don't think that the intent behind its passage (even if it won't hold up in court) doesn't matter and doesn't add to the backlash being experienced, then I am flabbergasted.
It's worth noting that no RFRA law has ever been used for this purpose before. But the Elane Photography v. Willock case out of New Mexico prompted Indiana to add a provision extending the RFRA provisions to businesses, who can then invoke it as a defense if litigious gay rights advocates (like those in New Mexico and Oregon) seek to bankrupt a Christian-owned business in Indiana. It doesn't give religious business owners a "right to discriminate"; but it does mean that Indiana courts have to have a "compelling state interest" which is advanced in the "least restrictive means possible" to rule against them. RFRA invocations are frequently overruled on that basis.
Again the Indiana law adds the exemption to businesses (as you pointed out) not just individuals, so it is different. Also the again the intent is to let them not bake the cake for the gay couple (not saying it will hold up in court, just that that is the intent).
This gets back to Buster's issue above with deciding what counts as a legitimate religion. Regardless, forcing anyone engaged is commerce to serve all potential customers regardless of religious or ideological objections is odious and incredibly illiberal, so RFRA-type protections should be extended to the gay baker in your example above.
Certain European companies who make key components for the lethal injection drug recently started refusing to sell to the US because they weren't comfortable being complicit in our death penalty. Should the US be able to compel them to sell to us by bringing a suit against them in the WTO? I don't think so, but your argument is that as soon as one engages in commerce, all religious and ideological baggage must be checked at the door. That's simply not how humans operate.
The cake is a pretty central element in American weddings. It's not unreasonable for orthodox Christians to feel that providing such an important element to a gay couple makes them complicit in something they feel is deeply sinful.
First off it wouldn't be extended to the gay baker by this law, so again the law is unfair and treats religious people differently by adding more protections to them (on top of the already great protections they have as a protected class). Also the wedding cake is a central element in the reception, not the wedding. I have never seen a religious wedding (I have been to many Catholic, Methodist, Christian Non-denominational, Baptist and even a few Jewish weddings) where the cake was any part of the religious ceremony. The cake is not a symbol of religion.
Community demands respecting your neighbor's sincerely-held religious beliefs, not equating them with the KKK. Do you think gay rights advocates seeking out Christian businesses for litigation is a community-building enterprise? It's more like a witch hunt, and it's only going to further divide this country.
Really as if Christians don't do the same, looking for every perceived insult? This is what upsets me the most. You act as if gay people wanting to be treated the same as everyone else is some horrible thing. Religious conservatives treat gay people as if they are the devil incarnate, and then get upset when the gay community lashes back at them. If Religious Conservatives had treated Gay people as equals then you might have an argument, but they haven't previously and still won't. Sorry while I fill bad for the individuals that suffer because of this, the truth is that Religious Conservatives brought it upon themselves by treating gay people like shit. How did you expect a group to respond when they are being discriminated against frequently?
For the record, I don't think that gay people should search out businesses to sue (I don't think anyone, disable, religious, etc should), and I agree that that ruins the community. My personal belief is that you help everyone (within reason, they threaten you, run around naked, are drunk and disorderly, etc are reason to not serve), and that we should be blind of things like religion, sex, age, race, sexuality when providing a service (obviously Church's are different). If you are a baker and the person is reasonable and orders something off your menu then you make it. If it isn't on your menu then feel free to decline.