Only one source (outside of Meyer or some OSU homer) has reported Neal tried to commit. Everyone else including the Neal's have said they did not try to commit and just straight up cut OSU supposedly because of Meyer's in-home visit where he tried to force Neal to commit (which is widely reported), and it is rumored that there was an argument between Mr. Neal and Urban.
Now, if Meyer tried to force the kid to commit, do you really think that a couple days later he would cut Neal from his list? No.
The insult he's referring to was that Meyer said OSU passed on an out of state wide receiver because his second step was always out-of-bounds during his NSD press conference.