I won't knock a dude for stuff going on in his personal life, off the field. If he and his GF broke up, that sucks. I feel for him and his family for losing his sister. That's brutal. And had he committed to ND and then transferred to OU after that, I can't say anyone would blame him.
On the field though, I've said it before, but welcome to the NIL era. You want big boy money, you get big boy criticism. You bailed on ND and your fellow commits at the last possible second and embarrassed everybody in the process. You took away everybody's time in the spotlight to make a spectacle of yourself, and lied to everyone. Sorry, but I don't wish somebody the best on the field when they screwed over the program I love and screwed over a bunch of great men in the process.
I hope for the best of him off the field, and even prayed for him and his family to get through that horrible tragedy, but on the field, nah.