md_bennett
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Perhaps he's honored to receive an offer from his Uncle's alma matter, and nothing more than that?
I mean, if I had no interest in a school, and my family member passed away and I received an offer from them, even if I had no interest at all, out of respect I'd say I was overwhelmed by the offer and very honored.
Anyway, all this speculation about who's leading is silly at this point. Whether we're leading or outside of his top 5, he hasn't visited yet and that can change everything.
It's like going to a car dealership with a top 5 in mind, without having test drove the cars yet. You see some pics online and you think you know your favorite, but you have to actually sit inside, drive the car, and hear the pitch as to why it's the best car for you.
Or choosing a job based on 'the company' without actually meeting with the personel. When I came out of college, I was convinced I was going to accept a position with company 1 if offered. It was an absolute no brainer. They recruited my school hard, knew friends that worked there from classes ahead of me, and were fortune top 20 at the time. I went through the interview with company 1, then interviewed with 2 other places just to be safe; the 2 other places were back up plans in case company 1 didn't offer. Like I said, company 1 was always my 'leader'. But the next two interviews blew me away with 'fit' and what they could offer, and after all 3 interviews, company 1 was the only place I ruled out. And this is coming from a college grad who has a pretty good understanding of the businesses and what not... I can't imagine how confusing it is for a high schooler.
I guess my point is, unless there's legit love for one school, I don't see the point in a top 5 pre-visit and IDC if we're outside of his top 5 as long as he's here on March 29th and gets to test drive.
If you get to a point where you're so far out that you're on the bubble of the top 5 and you might not get a visit, that's when there's reason to worry. But he's visiting, so personally, IDC what his top 5 or anything else is at this point. It's all about the V!
This may be the most level-headed, down to earth, and sensible comparison ever made on a recruiting site. NEG REPS!!