This is one of my few complaints with Skyrim. You can't really feel good about fighting for either side, and reconciling them to fight against the real bad guys isn't an option. Going through each quest line once is a good idea just to experience the content, but I usually stay neutral.
Change of subject, but if you're still smashing stuff with a melee weapon, you really need to be taking Vegetable Soup into combat. You craft it by combining Cabbage, Potato, Leek and Tomato (all cheap and ubiquitous food items) at a cooking pot. Eating it allows unlimited power attacks/ bashing for 12 minutes.
Thanks for the tip.
I'm really bad at this game. My combat consists of me finding my most damaging weapon, and hitting R1 repeatedly until one of us dies. I don't know how to use magic or spells, the only thing I do is if I'm fighting someone or a group that will be difficult, I put a poison on my weapon to help out.
I basically started out by going to every town once, to see it and to be able to fast-fly to it later on. This really got me confused and I lost track of objectives and what I'm supposed to be doing because I have like 10 open objectives, most of which are all for different groups of people.
I'm thinking about starting all over and paying better attention.
One thing I really don't like about this game is how counter intuitive it is. For instance, I read online (which is one of my gripes) that going to .... I actually forget the name now, but the town that has the college, you can learn magic. Well I met a lady on the bridge, and she wanted me to perform a spell I have never heard of. I figured it out, but I had to google it, which is really annoying for me. I wish they had a basic tutorial or 'practice' at the beginning of the game (like Metal Gear does), where you learn the basic controls. From there, you do what you want with it and fight for/with whoever you will. I don't like having to pause every 5 minutes to figure out what I'm supposed to be doing or how to do it. Again, I suck at this game.