Grahambo
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You are an unlikeable person, the sort of guy who makes me loathe religion.
But then look at my post about love and feel better again!
You are an unlikeable person, the sort of guy who makes me loathe religion.
Because civil unions are an insult. It's exactly that separate but equal you're writing about in your first paragraph. They're winning that fight as 37/50 states have agreed with them.
How are civil unions an insult? The gay activists used the argument that they just wanted the same rights as married people. It is their contention that the only way to ensure that is to allow gay people to marry. I am for them having the rights. I am just against them turning the institution of marriage upside down just so that they can feel better about themselves. Civil unions whose benefits are directly tied to the benefits of married couples (meaning as marriage rights/benefits change, immediately so do the rights and benefits awarded those in civil unions) would give gays those benefits that they say are their concern, and would also preserve the "sanctity of marriage" that fundamentalists seek. It's my opinion that the reason that gay activists won't accept this scenario is that their concern was never rights and benefits, but the forced embracing of the lifestyle by straight people.
How are civil unions an insult? The gay activists used the argument that they just wanted the same rights as married people. It is their contention that the only way to ensure that is to allow gay people to marry. I am for them having the rights. I am just against them turning the institution of marriage upside down just so that they can feel better about themselves. Civil unions whose benefits are directly tied to the benefits of married couples (meaning as marriage rights/benefits change, immediately so do the rights and benefits awarded those in civil unions) would give gays those benefits that they say are their concern, and would also preserve the "sanctity of marriage" that fundamentalists seek. It's my opinion that the reason that gay activists won't accept this scenario is that their concern was never rights and benefits, but the forced embracing of the lifestyle by straight people.
Yeah, also they don't want to be second-class citizens?
Listen, I'm all for the civil union route actually. I think the government should get out of the marriage game altogether. Everyone gets a civil union from the government, and the couples can get a secular/religious marriage ceremony if they want.
I guess I just don't understand how a Methodist could give a shit out Hindus getting married, or why Sunnis should care about what two Catholics gets married. If you're against gay marriage, great, but take it up with your religion, not the state.
You are an unlikeable person, the sort of guy who makes me loathe religion.
Buster Bluth said:So true or false, 37/50 allow gay marriage?
GoIrish41 said:Homosexuality is not a disease to be cured. Your observation is offensive as hell!
I don't reply to ad hominem attacks. I suppose you are just taking the advice of that protestor in Indy with a sign saying "sodomize intolerance," i.e. don't argue, just shriek and wail in an attempt to silence your opponent.
I am trying to raise questions and make predictions about what I and many others regard as a likely development in biotechnology and fetal therapy. If you are too disturbed by these possibilities to even discuss them, don't reply.
I never denied that same-sex marriage is legal in 37 states, but your claim was that "37/50 states have agreed with them [same-sex marriage supporters]." These are not the same thing. It is like saying the fact that abortion is legal 50 states proves that the whole country "agrees with" abortion supporters.
You want to bring up ad hominem attacks while you theorize about the elimination of gays via genetic engineering? Holy hell..
The broader argument was that gays were winning the battle. Even using your points, when one considers that in ten years the number of states voting to allow gay marriage has jumped from 1 to 18, the trend is obvious. Your ignorant opinions are going the way of the Dodo.
Actually, the evidence is that lots of things are going the way of the Dodo. For example, monogamy: polyamory is now increasingly popular, thanks in part to same-sex marriage (see for discussion Young Adults' Attitudes Toward Polygamous Marriage). No doubt this is part of the "right side of history"? Or is it the wrong side of history? Or the neutral side?
Your ignorant opinions...
Could you dial back the insults and name-calling when you disagree with someone else's opinion, please? This is a common complaint about those on the Left: instead of civil debate or discussion about topics or opinions they disagree with, or tolerance for others' views, they just resort to insults and personal attacks towards those whose opinions differ from their own. It doesn't contribute to the discussion and it sure isn't likely to sway anyone to change their opinion.
I have to admit I laughed. To pretend that only one side does that is one of the most laughable things that I have heard.
Both sides of the political aisle are guilty of it, but it's almost the default response of the Left. Regardless of who's doing it, it's counterproductive. You won't ever change anyone's mind about anything by insulting them, calling them an idiot for believing what they believe, or trashing their character for holding certain views.
You realize that making a broad generalization like this is just as offensive and divisive as Buster's original comment, right?
I'm sure it is to you. My intolerance for someone else's intolerance and pointing out their bad behavior is infinitely worse than their intolerance or bad behavior. That's how it works, right? About now is where you should start screaming that I'm an ignorant racist with the IQ of a lobotomized chimp, intent on doing something awful since I don't agree with you.
Could you dial back the insults and name-calling when you disagree with someone else's opinion, please? It doesn't contribute to the discussion and it sure isn't likely to sway anyone to change their opinion.
This is a common complaint about those on the Left: instead of civil debate or discussion about topics or opinions they disagree with, or tolerance for others' views, they just resort to insults and personal attacks towards those whose opinions differ from their own.
I'm sure it is to you. My intolerance (1) for someone else's intolerance (2) and pointing out their bad behavior is infinitely worse than their intolerance or bad behavior. That's how it works, right? About now is where you should start screaming that I'm an ignorant racist with the IQ of a lobotomized chimp, intent on doing something awful since I don't agree with you.
And the posts he was responding to were pretty offensive, though I'll give NDgradstudent the benefit of the doubt and assume he didn't mean to imply that homosexuality was a defect that should be stamped out in the next 20 years, just that as science advances people might start making that choice.
What does "offensive" even mean here? There was no argument put forth that anything I said was false. So I assume it just means "a claim I disagree with." Disagreeing with a claim does not justify cheap ad hominem attacks.
I'll just lay out my views (both predictive and ethical) clearly:
(1) Within 20 years there will either be (a) some sort of drug to prevent homosexuality in a developing fetus; (b) a test for homosexuality in a developing fetus; or (c) both a drug and a test.
(2) It is morally permissible from a Catholic point of view to take the drug that prevents homosexuality in a developing fetus.
The reason it is morally permissible is that the Church regards homosexuality as a disorder, and believes that fetal therapy is permissible if it remedies disorders, diseases, etc. It does not mean gay people are "less human," have less "dignity," etc. But it does mean that it is not forbidden to prevent homosexuality in utero should the means to do so be developed. This is not a consensus view among Catholic bioethicists, nor would I expect it to be. The Church believes gene therapy can be used ethically under certain conditions, but has no formal position on the hypothetical drug I have mentioned. The point is that this drug is likely to be developed in the relatively near future, whether we like it or not. So the proper response is worth thinking about. Incidentally, it is not obvious how secular liberals would respond to it, either. You can find arguments for and against from various perspectives.
I would argue that the LGBT Community started this fight... With their hyperbolic "separate but equal is NOT equal" campaign, designed to conjure up white guilt about how poorly the Black Community was treated in the US. As if these comparisons had some kind of merit.
Cry me a river. There aren't any special laws for white Irish/German mutts. The LGBT community has the same protections that I have.
Again, I think you are wrong. I think that the LGBT Community was the one who started punching first, labelling everyone who didn't jump for joy in celebration of them as a homophobe, and refusing to accept compromises like civil unions.
You fight to gain equal rights by standing up to bigotry, WHERE IT EXISTS. Not all Christians are bigoted, any more than all homosexuals are fantasizing about you in the shower.
When you consider what marriage used to be, literally anything is "the right side of history."
A marriage used to be an exchange of property between two legal actors: the groom and the father of the bride.
The wife had no legal rights. In the eyes of the law, being a married woman was a "disability" on the same level of being insane, in prison, or in a coma. You could not enforce your legal rights- your husband had to bring suit on your behalf.
Almost every state had rape statutes that started with "Except in the case of marriage" or something to that effect, granting the husband the legal right to have sex with his "property" even if she forcibly resisted.
So yes, I would count polygamy as being on the "right side of history" when you compare it with what marriage used to be.
side-note on polygamy. It seems to me like the societal prohibition on polygamy (specifically, polygyny) gives lie to the claim that reproduction is the ultimate justification for marriage.
If marriage were only about reproduction, one would expect that we'd have a harem-like system, where men married in proportion to their ability to provide for women and children. Since in our society, wealth = ability to provide, we'd see rich men with harems and poor men struggling to find a mate (or even entering into polyandrous relationships with other poor men). From a reproductive standpoint, this system would produce the best results: the most productive male genes would get passed on at a much higher rate, women would benefit from being able to share in the labor of raising children, etc... There's a reason that this is the system that arrises most often in nature and is a pretty frequent feature of ancient societies. When resources are scare, polygamy is a logical survival mechanism.
Right, and this is basically the "benefit of the doubt" version. But you also said things like
"In 20 years there will probably be an in utero treatment to prevent homosexuality, "gender identity disorder," etc., so most of this will be moot. It should be obvious that even the most "liberal" and "tolerant" parents will use it."
strongly implying that everyone agrees with a) the Catholic belief that homosexuality is a "disorder" and that b) it "obviously" should be "treated" if possible.
For people who don't see homosexuality as a disorder but as a trait no different than eye or skin color, this comes across as *really* offensive. I can promise you that even if I could, I would never test my unborn children for gayness and I would never try to "fix" it if it were present. What seems obvious to you, honestly, seems repulsive to me.
What does "offensive" even mean here? There was no argument put forth that anything I said was false. So I assume it just means "a claim I disagree with." Disagreeing with a claim does not justify cheap ad hominem attacks.
I'll just lay out my views (both predictive and ethical) clearly:
(1) Within 20 years there will either be (a) some sort of drug to prevent homosexuality in a developing fetus; (b) a test for homosexuality in a developing fetus; or (c) both a drug and a test.
(2) It is morally permissible from a Catholic point of view to take the drug that prevents homosexuality in a developing fetus.
The reason it is morally permissible is that the Church regards homosexuality as a disorder, and believes that fetal therapy is permissible if it remedies disorders, diseases, etc. It does not mean gay people are "less human," have less "dignity," etc. But it does mean that it is not forbidden to prevent homosexuality in utero should the means to do so be developed. This is not a consensus view among Catholic bioethicists, nor would I expect it to be. The Church believes gene therapy can be used ethically under certain conditions, but has no formal position on the hypothetical drug I have mentioned. The point is that this drug is likely to be developed in the relatively near future, whether we like it or not. So the proper response is worth thinking about. Incidentally, it is not obvious how secular liberals would respond to it, either. You can find arguments for and against from various perspectives.
That's just laughably false. You can't be fired because of your ethnicity. In many states (including Indiana), gay people can be fired because they are gay.
snopes.com: Fired for Being Gay
In 20 years, our children are going to be horrified to learn what LGBTQ people had to deal with.
...employees who work on an at-will basis may be terminated without cause...
This sounds a whole lot like selectively breeding future generations to fit someone's ideal of the master race. Isn't that what Adolph Hitler had in mind? Blond hair, blue eyes, white skin was considered the ideal. It seems like you are suggesting that we control reproduction/breeding, so that lesbians, gays, bi-sexuals, and transvestites are eventually eliminated from the population or at least greatly reduced in number. In other words, let's eliminate the LGBT community entirely by developing a drug that prevents one from becoming LGBT. Am I the only one that sees something morally wrong with that?
One potential approach, unrelated to 23andMe's patent, is known as pre-implantation genetic diagnosis, or PGD. It typically entails testing a three-day-old embryo, consisting of about six cells, to see if it carries a particular genetic disease. Only embryos free of that disease are implanted in the mother's womb, to ensure the disease isn't passed on.
However, some U.S. clinics have been using PGD not just to root out unwanted diseases, but also to allow customers to choose the gender of their child. That, some argue, is a step toward designer babies.
In principle, PGD could also be used to weed out—or specifically choose—physical traits such as eye or hair color, which are governed by relatively few genes. It will be much harder to select for other traits, such as height, athleticism or intelligence, because they are governed by multiple genetic factors as well as environmental effects.
1. Almost nothing in the parade of horribles the article enumerated bothered me. I'm 100% ok with a freedom of religion that allows individuals untrammeled freedom to practice their religion, but does not allow them to impose their beliefs on others outside of very narrow contexts[/B] (see: the civil-rights section in the Texas RFRA).
2. One of the reasons I'm ok with the parade of horribles is that I don't think Madison is the last word on the role of religion in America.
In other words, I believe that the law of the nation does and should trump the law of God (Render unto Caeser...).
And I believe the ultimate law of the nation is that "all men are created equal."
I (and I think Jefferson) disagree with the bolded. At the very least, I do not believe that an effective society can be designed with the caveat that all of its rules are subordinate to the religious edicts of its people, especially when We The People are such an incredibly diverse group.
I mean, shouldn't it be against the religion of every Christian to pay taxes in a state that has the death penalty? Or even in a nation that routinely uses lethal force in environments that don't quite meet the requirements of Christian Just War theory?
3. I simply disagree with the assertion that liberalism is a "religion."
For one, the moral authority of liberalism is not found in the Bible or divine revelation, but in the founding documents of our country (which, admittedly, were heavily influenced by Christian tradition).
Again, "all men are created equal" is- I believe- the foundational principle of our country.
To me, this means that the rights of the individual must trump the rights of a group.
Certainly, it hardly makes sense to say that there must be a barrier between religion and State but that a belief in the State is effectively a religion. Yet that seems to be the argument advanced in Levin's piece.
A reluctance founded in religion to cater a gay wedding may not be harmful, but one doesn't need to look too hard to find examples of religious beliefs that are obviously harmful.
It was against school rules at Bob Jones University for students to go on interracial dates. A student who went to BJU and then went on to, say, open up a restaurant, would have a very strong argument that it was against his religious beliefs to serve customers when one was black and the other was white. Mormons used to clearly treat blacks as inferior. Should Mormons in Salt Lake City have been free to turn away black customers based on their beliefs?
I disagree that religion is being chased out of the public square. American Christians are not persecuted by any stretch of the imagination. We are completely free to worship, to proselytize, to observe our sacraments.
Our churches have tax exempt status.
The state makes no attempt to control what we say or what we believe.
However, I also believe that the "public square" in America is broadening. Our country accepts more people of more diverse backgrounds and beliefs today than it has in the past. I think that if religious people are leaving the public square it is because they can't accept the general broadening of the square, not because they are being forced out.
I will be the first to say that no business should have the right to discriminate against someone because of their religious beliefs.
Everyone is welcome into the square, but only to the extent they are willing to tolerate everyone else in the public square.
This sounds a whole lot like selectively breeding future generations to fit someone's ideal of the master race. Isn't that what Adolph Hitler had in mind? Blond hair, blue eyes, white skin was considered the ideal. It seems like you are suggesting that we control reproduction/breeding, so that lesbians, gays, bi-sexuals, and transvestites are eventually eliminated from the population or at least greatly reduced in number. In other words, let's eliminate the LGBT community entirely by developing a drug that prevents one from becoming LGBT. Am I the only one that sees something morally wrong with that?
What's laughable is you calling my statement that LGBT people have the same protections as me laughable, and then using a link that supports my statement.
From the link:
No one in an "at-will" state is going to say that they fired anyone because they are gay, or because they don't like the Irish. They simply don't give a reason. They don't need cause, after all. So a gay person has the same protection as I do, which is basically; none.