Hoping to add about 5-10 pounds of muscle while dropping about 5-10 pounds of fat, if that makes sense, this summer. I am at 190 now. I carry it pretty well, just wanna get rid of the bad weight, especially since I will be hitting the beach soon haha.
You're better off just toning/strengthening and losing fat.
If you try to gain muscle the appropriate way you will also gain fat in the process. It really comes down to diet and how much weight your benching/squatting/dead-lifting. Bulking and lifting heavy the right way will generally give you a muscle gain of 1 or 2 lbs per month and some added fat.. it's a pain in the ***. All the gym rats "bulk" during the winter (eating 300-500 more calories than their basic metabolic rate a day) and "cut" before summer (500 less).
I'm 5'8" 170 now and started at 195 about 3 months ago.. I stick to 3-4 workouts a week consisting of 2 muscles a day. I aim for a weight that will force me to struggle at about 8-10 reps. I basically want to keep all the muscle I already have, harden the **** out of it and rip all the fat from it. I just want to be athletic at this point.
I do about 4 workouts for each muscle and then hit the aerobic room for some cross-fit exercises. For about 30 minutes I'll circulate the following exercises: 90 seconds jump rope, 10 burpees, 10 incline pushups on balance ball, lunges with weights and 10 ab roll outs... I add new exercises and modify every week.
I usually don't have any energy left for the treadmill or elliptical by then but the cross fit stuff is great for fat burning. Some days I'll skip the aerobic room and do 30 minutes running though too.
Diet:
Breakfast Foods - Either 4 eggs, oatmeal, fruit shake, bran cereal or some combination of that.. WATER
Lunch - Either mixed greens with chicken/black beans, turkey on wheat, PB on wheat, any lean meat with veg and brown rice combo. WATER
Snacks - I eat every 3 hours so snacks are a big part of that.. Plain Greek Yogurt, fruit, granola, almonds, fiber bar, carrots.. etc etc WATER
Dinner - Nothing ridiculous. Generally healthy, not too restricted but not fast food and not big portions. WATER
I also enjoy a cup of ice cream/frozen yogurt a few times a week.. gotta satiate the cravings or you WILL binge.
I found that after about a month of fighting my brains auto-pilot steering me to the refrigerator and then the couch, it became easier to make the right decisions.
Once you train it to expect a workout and a healthy meal, it will want it and automatically prepare your body for it. Oh and drink water.