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I think thats well said I also think its an idea in a vacuum.
Neither you, I, or anyone else on this board knows what happened in the past month with this kid. Further, you have no idea whats been going on in his life writ large up till now.
We have a tiny looking glass into high school kid's lives and then make grand assumptions about what the whole thing must look like. Its just not that way sometimes.
Most of us have a hard and fast rule about posting on kid's social media. Not necessarily because its unethical, but because it's weird. Why is it OK for us to sit here and talk shit about their core character when they're not even out of high school?
Were not saying they don't have the grades, their bullies, they got in trouble with the law.... we're impugning their core character because they didn't choose ND and liked another school better.
If it went the other way... and they talked shit on another school while flipping to us... yall would love it and don't play like you wouldn't.
The first bolded is a good point. But to clarify on the second bolded, I feel totally comfortable saying that it's a "character flaw" to lie to people. I'm not saying he's a bad person -- I'm saying it's (at best) a sign of immaturity to lie to people repeatedly. You're not going to see me do mental gymnastics to say lying == good. And there are certainly no ends that justify the means. He gains nothing from lying, but it very well cost a grown man with a family his job. There is asymmetrical downside to how he has chosen to act.
I would feel the exact same if Michigan is the party being lied to. I think your last point is offbase. It's about the action. I would care less, but I sure as hell wouldn't "love it."
Last thought before I head to bed -- I've never had a player do something like Walker is doing, and I'm not sure what I would do as his coach. But I think some adults in his life should've have stepped in at some point and said simply "you don't have to talk to people every day, take time to make a final decision."