GowerND11
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It's an interesting premise... a type of national gentrification. But I want to push back on the implication that it's somehow the fault of the 1% or the 20% or whatever percentile you want to draw the line at. People who succeed don't succeed to get away from the people who don't. They (dare I say "we") succeed by making good decisions because they're the right decisions to make. Most of us don't succeed by greed, we succeed by accident. The thing I really can't figure out is that it's remarkably easy to be successful, which doesn't seem like it should be the case. Common sense would dictate that routine, ordinary decision-making should put you somewhere around the 50% range, but routine, ordinary decision-making will actually put you well into the upper-middle socioeconomic classes. My father is a factory worker with no college education and my mother is an administrative worker with a degree she earned in her 40s and they're well into the 25th percentile of household income. Two schoolteachers making $43,000 each are also in the 30th percentile. What the hell are the other 70% of people doing when two schoolteachers outearn them?
ETA: Obviously, that's a rhetorical question. What the other 70% of people are doing is getting divorced, getting pregnant at 16, dropping out of school, gambling, drinking, burying themselves in debt, and refusing to work hard.
I want to agree with you. I really do. And there are valid points in this post. You're right that is isn't hard for people to succeed. Do the right thing, and generally you will find a decent job, a loving spouse with a decent job, a good circle of friends with a good job, etc.
However, we know that there are so many variables in life that can help someone fail. (notice I didn't say cause) Those divorces reek havoc on young children, let alone teenage pregnancies for the child as well. When you are born in a poor area it is difficult (not impossible) to reverse the cycle. Life, while full of "easy" choices, is still really hard, especially for children and teenagers.
Working as a teacher at a juvenile camp I see so much talent both academically and athletically and ask them what happened? It's so hard for these kids to break the cycle when they are literally taking care of themselves since they were 8. They are loud and obnoxious, not because they are inherently assholes, but because they were conditioned at home to scream and shout in order to get attention. When they see mom and dad selling/doing drugs, they think that's normal. When there is no food in the house, and an older kid offers them $20 to "take this bag to that house," they jump at the opportunity.
There are a lot of factors in play besides just doing it right. I feel like first we need to fix other issues, like the ones you mentioned, but how can we do that? It's easy to find the problem, it's another to solve it.