Perhaps. But football is a passionate, violent sport. I don't want my coaches looking for the least aggressive way to handle situations. My priest, my insurance agent, the checker at the grocery store, the guy who installed my cable TV? Yeah, I'd hope that all of those people had the type of personality that looked for the "softest" way to handle things. A football coach, a soldier, sailor, airman, or Marine; the guy who comes to exterminate the rats in the attic, a firefighter? Yeah, I want those people to be aggressive. Different mentalities for different roles in life. I don't want them sucker punching anyone, but BK didn't do that. All he did was grab Grimes' shirt and push him backwards. I have no problem with that. And I don't think anyone of us, or anyone associated with the University should give half of a fvck about the optics of it. If he had thrown a punch, or pushed him down and stood over him, that would be another story for me. But he didn't.