Everything about this story was stupid, but there was plenty of blame to go around. Clearly the people behind the hoax are to blame. Manti made a big mistake by lying and saying he met the girlfriend when he didn't. He also deserves blame for continuing to do interviews during the season about it and calling her the ''love of his life''. The media should have fact checked some of the things Manti said instead of running with a story just because it sounded good.