I don't want to quote 3250 above or WhiskeyJack's great post, as they are very good, but longer. Lord knows this thread is long enough! But, most people should be doing other things than dealing with this story. I wonder about the mental health of riding this, pro, or anti Te'o.
Now for the thing I have been trying to get everybody to understand. Michigan weekend, I sat at a table, in a kitchen full of people and listened to this unfold. There was the Te'o is a "player" camp. There was the Te'o is "St. Superman" camp. Most were inbetween. They were all pretty firm with their opinion. One girl who had been around these guys, (the whole team), but not directly involved with Te'o had an opinion, (not so much), a more mature woman that worked on campus also, (thought he was), and another person who said basically, if 99 men walks up to a woman and says, that you have beautiful eyes, it means one thing; if Manti walks up and says it, it means they have beautiful eyes. This was discussed less than two weeks after it happened. And there was no behavior that indicated anything was being hushed that day.
Finally, I wonder if what is fueling this media event is the number of people that have made a$$es out of themselves on this and are now trying to find relief from the stink? It is all about the opinion, not what it was. I have to chuckle, nobody gets it. This is about assumptions, as is everybody's fukkin' opinion! Not about what happened at all!