kmoose
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The problem is that it isn't about teaching your child, when someone pulls a gun your instincts kick in. I will give you an example.
I worked for a long time in bank management, where you are taught to comply with demands. If someone robs the branch it is pounded into your head over and over to comply, comply, comply (unless they try to take you out of the branch then do whatever the fuck you need to do to have them leave you there). I had a friend who worked in banking for 30 years and was on vacation when she went into a convenience store and when she came out she found a large man (6'3" 250+) breaking into her car and going through her suitcase, instead of responding to her training (which would have been let them have it and call the police from inside the store), she went up to him and said hey that is my stuff, leave it alone. He pulled out a gun and got into his car and drove off. See the thing is you can tell people over and over how to respond in these situations but the truth is that you don't know how people will respond when it happens. While we should teach our children to be respectful we should also hold our police offices to high standards which is to not shoot people in the back when they run away especially if they are not dangerous criminals and if they want to shoot people in the back when they aren't a threat then they are the problem not the person running away. Sorry.
I don't discount your point about instincts, but instincts can be trained out. Elite military units like Seals do it all of the time. Now you can't put your kid through BUDS, but you can consistently reinforce the right way to do things. It is instinct to run from a charging bear, but that doesn't mean that we aren't inundated with the message to not look like prey by turning tail and running.
I also agree about holding officers to higher standards. I have said, repeatedly, that I think we (the people) should be demanding to know more about their training, so that we can understand whether or not something needs to change. But you can't give a carpenter nothing but a box of screwdrivers and staples, and then fire him for not framing the house.