The problem, as I see it, is that post WWII, Americans have an idea of war that is historically nonexistent.
War consists of dedicating all of your cultural, social, economic, and military resources to destroying your enemy. Total annihilation. Rape. Pillage. Burn. Kill. Do this until the devastation leaves no choice but total and absolute surrender... Surrender of every value I registered above.
Peace can and will grow out of this circumstance.
Generally speaking I do not advocate for war. The only terms I find war acceptable is when the essence of your cultural, social, and economic existence is being threatened.
I also do not advocate using military resources as some type of half step measure. I believe this is why we are so confused on this issue for the last 70 years. Air strikes and police state peace making is fruitless and I would argue only sows the seeds of future retaliation.
The frustration is so very difficult for us to understand because for the first time in human history Americans have the resources to annihilate all our enemies many times over. What we lack is the will to do this. Thank God we lack this.
I'll say it like this. Use economic and political sanctions as well as olive branches and incentives to encourage stability and prosperity in the region. If and when the day comes that the security of Israel or Indianapolis is truly threatened. And I mean threatened with an annihilating type of weapon. Then you respond with your own version of justice and settle the matter.
We never should have been there in the first place. I regret that the instability we caused will result in an even greater loss of human lives, but again, the half measured precision style police state action only repeats and deepens the damage. We do not have and should not have the will to do anything more. What we need is to set aside ego and let them settle things for themselves.