Based on my look at Urban (and Saban), I think he is a sociopath...I see no evidence of empathy for anyone...(and no not all sociopaths are killers)...I see a guy who absolutley loves to manipulate. Sure coaches can be thought of as master manipulators...but there is a difference between motivation and manipulation. Motivation is where someone else's success is the design...Manipulation can look very similar, especially from a coach...but the residue of manipulation are the bodies left behind by the program, and his conduct outside the role of coach....anybody buy the last 2 years of the guy's life story as told by him????
I think the man lies when the truth sounds better...I mean hell, could you blame him for bolting from FL? It would have been easy to say, I gotta take a break...no promises. So why all the BS? Because he lives to manipulate you...the only way that happens is if he lies...He lies to generate an opportunity to mind dork you...just tellin ya...I think the guy is BAD NEWS...rather I'm an ND fan or not...My kids wouldn't get within 100 miles of that guy.
Oh an ancillary...he and the popcorn farter Gee are PERFECT for each other...PERFECT!