You're not abiding at all, very un-dude. This is a very complicated case. You know, a lotta ins, lotta outs, lotta what-have-you's. A lotta strands to keep in my head, man.
I am speculating as much as anyone on this board, no more no less. I just happened to write something contradictory to what you think and/or want. The fact that he wanted more time is not in ND's favor, this happens to ND quite a lot, other (no not all) elite recruits flipped instantly, the simplest thing would be that both announce for ND today if they liked it so much, no doubt he would have announced for Cal yesterday, etc etc etc
By the way, from where did you get that he wants to flip to us??? No indication of that whatsoever. I hope that I am wrong, I really do. It would make my day.