With little ones, how much do you notice the shuttle/travel impacting the trip at a value/moderate compared to the deluxe or whatever they label the "higher end" resorts? We've only been twice (my son is 5 next month) and stayed at Beach Club the first time, then found a reasonable deal at Polynesian last time, but deal really should have an asterisk considering the cost. I didn't find much value at the Polynesian in terms of getting to his favorite parks (he likes Star Wars so Hollywood Studios was his favorite), but being able to watch the fireworks from the pool was great. Beach Club was nice because of the short walk to Epcot and the awesome pool. The price drop off between some of the resorts is so great that I can't help but want to try some of the value ones, but wasn't sure if the cost savings was not worth it when they're younger (ie hot kid at the park means lets get to the pool asap before it's meltdown city).
We've done all three tiers and each provided pros and cons, as you'd expect.
Animal Kingdom Lodge (deluxe)
Port Orleans Riverside (moderate)
Art of Animation (value)
AoA was nice enough for our "budget" trip. The pools are fun. The cafe had a ton of great food options. It's a very short Skyliner trip to Hollywood Studios and Epcot. It's not too far from AK either. It is on the SW side of WDW so Magic Kingdom was a bit of haul. Otherwise, for the money, we enjoyed it and would gladly go back there with small kids.
Port Orleans is on the W side of the map. It's closest to Epcot, but obviously not too far from HS either. Super easy access by ferry boat to Disney Springs. The room value is only a slight upgrade over the Value resorts, imo. Moderate resorts mostly just offer more food options with on site restaurants. The pool was fantastic. I'd definitely go there again. Hard to beat the location, price, food options, etc all bundled into this particular resort.
AK Lodge was obviously the nicest of the three but also the furthest from all the parks not named Animal Kingdom. I wouldn't stay there again despite how nice it is. The pool is amazing. The food is amazing. But we couldn't get over how far the bus rides were, especially at night with two small kids. Save your money. (That's not to say I'd never stay in a deluxe resort again. I'd just choose one more centrally located.)
We have had a couple trips where we stayed multiple days. First time we did, the kids had more fun swimming in the pool than actually going to the park. I was fine with it because they had a bar outside with a jack and coke icee machine.
Jack and coke icee machine?! Now that's a hotel I'd be fine with!