irish o'phile
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A drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts. There is a lot of hate there and it likely has to be grounded in some beliefs or thoughts he holds in. Sadly, he probably doesn't even remember the details of what he did.
I can empathize with some of the anger he displayed. After my dad passed away, before I learned to process how I felt, I used to go to some pretty dark and angry places when I drank. I would hold everything in and then blow up. I would get in fights and do hulk smash kind of stuff. I was perfectly nice and well-liked when sober, but about once a month, I was a total A-Hole. The good news for him is that it can be absolutely temporary, if he commits to making it that way and dealing with whatever is buried. I have a strong feeling that the Courts will serve as a catalyst for this change. It's too bad that he likely effed up a free education at ND prior to this.
I can empathize with some of the anger he displayed. After my dad passed away, before I learned to process how I felt, I used to go to some pretty dark and angry places when I drank. I would hold everything in and then blow up. I would get in fights and do hulk smash kind of stuff. I was perfectly nice and well-liked when sober, but about once a month, I was a total A-Hole. The good news for him is that it can be absolutely temporary, if he commits to making it that way and dealing with whatever is buried. I have a strong feeling that the Courts will serve as a catalyst for this change. It's too bad that he likely effed up a free education at ND prior to this.