Spoken like someone without a job or young children (that's how it comes off). I like to check IE when I'm at work during my breaks, and I don't want my boss walking in on me thinking that I'm looking at Kate Upton's breasts. I could get seriously reprimanded or even fired. that has nothing to do with me getting my balls back or anything about me being soft.
As for my wife, I am lucky that we have a good relationship and when she sees that stuff on here or other message she just laughs it off. But not everyone is as fortunate as I am, and I can see why it would be embarrassing for them to go on an Irish site, and have their spouses think they are looking at porn LOL. Things aren't as cut and dry as you make them out to be for everyone.
And sorry, when my daughter is seven or eight years old, and she climbs on my lap and sees what I'm looking at, it is not that easy to explain. I don't want her to think that her daddy is looking at porn or objectifying women. And at that age, it's just not that easy to explain way as something I'm not doing.
Now, I have had no problem with this thread, but you need to check yourself if you think that there is no reason why anyone would have a problem with this. People have different situations, like at work and at home, and you shouldn't just dismiss them as being soft for having those concerns.
