Blazers46
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I think I have made my point clear. If you want to go to Hell in a handbasket, by all means, do as you please. I am still entitled to an opinion on if being trans has any benefit or not. Like I have said many times, I have friends and people I encounter on a regular basis that want to be called by different nicknames and even some gender pronouns. If I feel like this privately negotiated mode of address is appropriate and not some ideological control tactic I am fine with it. I think the hysteria of someone having a different opinion than you all you are trained to get defensive and do what it is you guys are doing. I have never been accused of being any sort of phobic in real life... just on here because you guys see the black-and-white of the words and are trained to hate those words. Everyone I have a relationship with on a personal level knows my heart and where I stand on "hating" people and even treating them differently. I really think it's a foreign language to understand that someone could have a different idea and still be a friend. In social work, you learn that relationship is primary. You cannot start to talk to or provide any sort of service to someone without a relationship. People listen to you if they like you... they won't listen to you if they don't like you. The same goes for any relationship. That is why we take clients out for a beer. That's why there is always dinner typically before sex even with Tinder... relationship, relationship, relationship... message boards and social media are very impersonal so we respond on the black and white letters on this page and do a lot of assuming and trying to win the most minuscule argument and for what?