I'm going to make people mad but please hear me out.
What they did was wrong I won't argue that one bit but this is what you get when you let referees run free. You give them all the power and don't give the people below them any check in the balance system. Most time you are even penalized for saying anything negative about referees. You don't give people an out in the situation. There are so many people playing football and sports in general. People will eventually snap. Is it right to snap no but give them some place they can take their anger from bad calls all game so they can be checked and if need be the officials penalized. Being an ND fan we all no what one bad call at the right time or constant throughout the game can do. I just wish there was a system in place to fix this problem before it comes to something terrible like this.
Sorry but I feel your wrong.
The league chooses what officials to use. If there is a problem with your officiating then the league won't use you. If their is a question as to your call the league will review what happened and make their decision.
I've coached and umped if the coach feels I made the wrong call I won't penalize him for voicing his opinion unless he steps over the line of swearing in front of the kids or getting physical. Then he gets the warning past that he can watch with the parents.
I even warn a coach if the kid is pushing it. And I'll guarantee I'm not the only one who's like that.
As a coach I've told every kid that if you have a problem with the Ump or Ref odds are I've seen or one of the other coaches have seen it and we'll say something you just be quiet let the coaches handle it.
I know I'm not the only coach who does that because I learned that from my father over 20 years ago when he coached me.
Let's not make excuses the coach was arguing a call and I have no problem with that then he went after the ref and should have been ejected and forced to sit the next game or whatever.
Then that player decided to light the ref up. If I was on the board of that league he'd be banned for life from playing in it.