A lot of the confusion on my part was more directed from the post where you said if we don't get him, it will be because of the coaches...and then in another post where you said you don't blame the staff.
I understand quite well why the staff wasn't all over his jock previously-- there probably wasn't quite the need for him then as there appears to be now.
My comments regarding the unknowns of how his recruiting is currently going stems more from the general lack of actual knowledge of the situation...because none of us are actually involved in it. That's probably the biggest reason I can't answer how many times ND coaches have driven down to see him. In a similar way, it's why none of us (unless we're Gunner or somebody on the staff here...in which case an NCAA violation would be occurring) can say with a lot of certainty what is going on with him. Knowledgeable posters on web sites and paid subscriptions for premium info on web sites doesn't quite cut the mustard for my standard of solid information. We all speculated Perkins backed out because of grades, but confirmation from many on here came from a poster on here who goes to school with him. Sounds like credible stuff, but sometimes high school rumors are just that. Can anybody on here say with absolute certainty whether Noah Spence is being recruited as a DE or OLB? Many have guessed, assumed, and surmised...but I don't think anybody here truly knows what BK and staff have told him. And we won't know for a little while for sure because the coaches are prohibited from commenting about recruits and Spence himself hasn't said.
The comment I threw in there about Vandy was kind of aimed at me (and I'm sure many others) believing if ND loses him to them, then there's more to the story. To keep the analogies going, I think it'd be like Tom Brady deciding if he's going to marry super hot, super wealthy, well-traveled, sexy-accented Gisele...or the kinda cute girl named Ruby Sue that lived down the street when he was a kid. I'm sure Ruby Sue down is pretty in her own way and has a lot of attributes, but let's face it, she is definitely different than Gisele. We all know Tom picked Gisele and nobody thinks he made a bad decision to do so. But if he picked Ruby Sue over Gisele, people would question him. I, for one, don't think he necessarily made a bad decision. After all, it's his decision to make, and he needs to make the one that will make him happiest. Only Tom can answer if it's Gisele or Ruby Sue, and if he were to pick Ruby Sue, I think it would stem from a fundamental difference in what he wants out of marriage, family, and life in general. Him picking Ruby Sue over Gisele would say more about Tom than either Gisele or Ruby Sue.