greyhammer90
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Another bunch of reasons why I love this school.
"This is a little off topic, but also football related. Last week, my son Xavier Murphy, ND '11, died. He was killed by something called Philadelphia chromosome positive acute lymphoblastic leukemia. That's a disease that is just as scary as its name, and it took Xave from us with devastating speed. Xave was a faithful Catholic boy and a good student, and when he was accepted at ND four years ago, it was a dream come true for him and for our family. He was a very good high school football player, and tried to walk on as a receiver. When he was cut, he joined the management program, and worked his way up to serving last year as one of the team's head student managers. At the time of his death, he was working as an intern with Ryan Grooms and the team's equipment staff, and getting ready for grad school.
I know the program has received a lot of criticism in the past, for matters surrounding the death last year of Declan Sullivan, and for other issues. Undoubtedly, mistakes were made. All I can say is that the entire school, from Fr. Jenkins through Jack Swarbrick, through Coach Kelly (and Coach Weis) to all the students and faculty who knew Xavier, have shown enormous generosity of spirit and support for my family in our time of unfathomable tragedy. Xave absolutely loved ND, and Irish football, and I entirely see why.
Sorry to get off topic. Strictly speaking, this is only tangentially a football post. But I just remembered, even as I hope (and believe) we will punish the Trojans two nights from now, that I love ND football so much because I love this school, and everything it stands for. Rest in peace, Xave."
"This is a little off topic, but also football related. Last week, my son Xavier Murphy, ND '11, died. He was killed by something called Philadelphia chromosome positive acute lymphoblastic leukemia. That's a disease that is just as scary as its name, and it took Xave from us with devastating speed. Xave was a faithful Catholic boy and a good student, and when he was accepted at ND four years ago, it was a dream come true for him and for our family. He was a very good high school football player, and tried to walk on as a receiver. When he was cut, he joined the management program, and worked his way up to serving last year as one of the team's head student managers. At the time of his death, he was working as an intern with Ryan Grooms and the team's equipment staff, and getting ready for grad school.
I know the program has received a lot of criticism in the past, for matters surrounding the death last year of Declan Sullivan, and for other issues. Undoubtedly, mistakes were made. All I can say is that the entire school, from Fr. Jenkins through Jack Swarbrick, through Coach Kelly (and Coach Weis) to all the students and faculty who knew Xavier, have shown enormous generosity of spirit and support for my family in our time of unfathomable tragedy. Xave absolutely loved ND, and Irish football, and I entirely see why.
Sorry to get off topic. Strictly speaking, this is only tangentially a football post. But I just remembered, even as I hope (and believe) we will punish the Trojans two nights from now, that I love ND football so much because I love this school, and everything it stands for. Rest in peace, Xave."
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