Massachusetts is a fine state and the New England Atlantic coast is absolutely gorgeous. That being said, MA doesn't align with my own personal interests as much as VT or NH. I like to fish, hike, ski, and do other outdoorsy activities. Vermont (and New Hampshire to a lesser extent) easily trump Massachusetts in those areas.
I haven't spent too much time in Massachusetts, but my personal opinion based on visiting relatives is that inner Massachusetts is somewhat boring and the state as a whole doesn't have as many of the "classic" New England small towns as Vermont and NH. Also, Massachusetts isn't nearly as friendly to the sole-proprietor as Vermont; you will see less local business and more chains.
I really like the small town structure, it's something we've looked for repeatedly but it's hard/impossible to find near StL. Like you, I enjoy the outdoors. I'm not so much a fisherman but hiking, snowboarding, (really want to learn timberframing), I think I'd like snowshoeing and I really would like to have a nice sized garden. Thanks for the input!
I grew up in Boston, lived in St. Louis for a bunch of years (now for some reason live in Southern California). I'd move back to New England in a heartbeat if the right job came up, and plan to eventually regardless. Like Rhode said, it's the greatest place to live on the planet (though they do say distance makes the heart grow fonder).
If you like small cities, New England has lots of them. But unless you're talking about Boston, which is expensive, I don't really think the cost of living is going to be all that different across the region. Different places have different tax structures, but they all get you one way or another, and the cost of other stuff will vary widely based on your lifestyle. Even in Vermont there's a big diff between the touristy towns and places off the beaten path (between Burlington and Rutland, for instance). And while the flatlands of southern New Hampshire are basically suburban Boston, drive north an hour and you're in a very different place. So it kinda depends what you're into.
Also I would not neglect Maine. It's gorgeous, especially along the coast. Portland's a great town. And a lot of the smaller cities are neat places too. Does get cold though. Bring a good coat.
Thanks for the feedback. Maine is too far away from her sister. We'd like to be close to family if we are going to make this big transition, ideally we aren't more than 2ish hours away from Boston.
Jersey.... overtaxed but worth it lol...only if you're from here... not worth it otherwise
Thanks nsisk, I don't think Jersey is my place but I think you helped confirm it.
I know nothing about these states but me2southbend lives in Mass If irc. He can provide some insight as well.
Thanks, hopefully he chimes in.
To those who have lived there, I'm trying to understand the additional costs associated with living in the New England area.
If we are rural, do we need a generator? snowmobile? These are very simplistic, perhaps naive questions but I don't know what is involved at all with these locations.
I'm assuming being in an area with more people won't require as many considerations. Some of the homes we've been looking at have 3-12 acres and it says they are just off the snowmobile route. I don't really know what that means, ha ha.
Thanks again for the comments from each of you.