Congratulations!
I went into this thread with the feeling that no one saw the fact that college football players are raping women and getting away with it, is a big problem. And some of those same people wonder why 14, 15, and 16, year old boys who see what is happening are doing it, and not having as easy a time getting away with it.
Now there are two things at play, the true rapist mentality, and stupidity. Most of the younger copycats are just plain stupid. But some of these guys are rapists. The line; how defined? Normal sex is about something from love and intimacy to sexual gratification. Rape is not. It is about power. It is almost as if a rapist, has that normal "module" desiring intimacy and sexual gratification replaces with one that want a "power" overdose of domination. It is the same thing, by the way, with a batterer. That is also about domination and power. The leading cause of death among pregnant women in the US is murder; THAT is a telling statistic.
So all these people that are kissing Florida State's and Winston's asses are feeding this image of female domination as an appropriate expression. Of course it is not.
I said some pretty insulting things to some. I didn't expect to get the results I got, but I will take responsibility for what I said. That kind of hyperbole is an old and trusted writers tool. Look back to the New Testament and Jesus likening a rich man's chances of entering Heaven to that of a camel getting through the eye of a needle!
I really hope all of you that found yourself upset at my words, could try to fathom the upset that the fathers, brothers, husbands, and children of rape victims feel. A rape victim is usually raped twice. Once is the crime, and the second is by the system that attempts justice.
Any of you who have ever held the had of a victim or made a decision for a victim, when you know they would be destroyed on the stand, because the perpetrator had the sense to hire the biggest prick of an attorney possible, will know what I mean.
See, I feel outrage when these kids are first abused, and then allowed to go out and abuse others. And then they serve as a model on how to get away with it!
So carry on by all means. Until the person that gets hurt is in your family. Or stop being smug about it and find a way to make a difference.