there's a lot going on in your comments here. you're connecting morals to the decision to support gay rights. it seems like you want to separate issues of morals and rights, but you ended up making a direct connection between the two. whether or not you agree with homosexuality, in my opinion, we should still support the legal rights of the LGBT community.
also, i agree that the media can go over the top when responding to some anti-gay comments. as you can tell, i tend to be liberal when it comes to social policy, but i don't think phil's comments were as bad as their made out to be. be careful, though, when saying it's unfair to be judged so harshly for having an opinion that views LGBT negatively. keep in mind that while you say it "isn't right" to be judged for having the opinion, you're judging anyone LGBT and they think it "isn't right" for you to judge them in that way. it's a two way street.