Yep. Shut up. Don't justify or over explain. Certainly don't blast out a defensive-sounding lecture and then ask for money. Just do what you can to make the best of this unfortunate situation, learn from it, and move forward.
Personally I've always been a Swarbrick fan. I think he has navigated Notre Dame through some very tricky waters in college sports in recent years, and somehow turned Kelly's embarrassing departure into a win by hiring Freeman. All of which makes what has gone on since Rees left all the more baffling. It has been mistake after mistake, and it's unlike him.
Either way, Notre Dame football will survive. I for one was present for the entire decade of the 2000s and, wow, there were some dark times. This is nothing.