That's awful. Just like what happened to Renee Good was awful.
It's easy to say FAFO but her life doesn't need to be reduced to that. Yes, she(or her wife)made a really bad decision but her life was full of tragedy.
The father of her first 2 kids died. Then she lost custody of those kids. After that it appears she just became lost. Has another kid with another guy. Moves to Canada. Decides she's a lesbian. Moves to Minnesota because it's a woke city or whatever. Shaves her head to be hard-core and dedicates her life to fighting ICE/Trump instead of being a mother to her child.
Just an all around tragedy.
Not that it matters, but I think you have the timeline and details is wrong.
She had two kids with her first husband and they divorced and he is still alive.
She had one kid with her other husband, and they separated.
She lost custody to her two kids after her first marriage.
Her second husband was rumored to have committed suicide sometime after they split as he dealt with a lot of PTSD.
I assume she still had that child if she dropped off one of them to school that day.
Sometimes we minimize these and classify these as a “FAFO” because that’s what it is. It’s tragic, but actions have consequences.