You're begging me to hurt your feelings, which I have no desire to do, then you'll play the victim. To your question, you're a man pretending to be a woman. Doesn't matter what you identify as, what hormones or surgery you may or may not indulge in, whether it makes you happy or not to do so. You're a biological man. Anything else is make-believe or mental illness. I realize you had some major childhood trauma, and I genuinely feel for you and understand why you do what you do, but it doesn't change reality. You're a biological male. You should never go into a woman's bathroom. It's your right to pretend to be a woman, to identify as a woman, to do whatever you want as long as you don't harm others, but you DO NOT have any right to force others to adapt to your beliefs and recognize them as valid anywhere outside of your own head. I can pretend to be Napolean - heck, I can even genuinely believe I'm Napolean - but that gives me absolutely no right to demand that others believe it too or speak only French to me, address me as Mon General, clear out of my way and allow me to be first everywhere, have restaurants all to myself, or any other such nonsense. You do you. Stop demanding that the rest of us play along. Stay out of the women's bathrooms. You're not a woman.